This women has just dumbfounded me with her actions. She has to be incestuous with this boy. I have never seen a mother like this in my life. 5 am. in the morning she gets up when he comes in from hanging out and takes a plate to him in his room. Yesterday she washed his clothes and folded his clothes and put them in his room after she cooked dinner that he requested. She sleeps in his bed and when he comes home she doesn't leave his room. However, who can you tell what you see. Who would believe you? They work together at strore in College Park, GA., she does not let him catch the bus to work and she will bite your head off for saying anything against him. Georgia women are totally taboo.
2006-08-01 04:13:32 · 27 answers · asked by car trouble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No I don't think a woman should do that, but the story you tell is not unusual. I've heard similar stories with men who are older than 19. The problem is that the woman needs to find her own life and her own hobbies and let her son become a man. I do, however, feel very sorry for the boy's future wife!
2006-08-01 04:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
No, I do not think a mother of a 19 year old MAN should be carrying his food to him or cleaning his clothes or room for that matter~ He should of been learning how to cook and clean and wash clothes by the age of 9. Yeah, I said it my son is 6 he knows how to clean and take out the trash. As he gets older he gets more and more duties around the house~ Sucks that a mom wants to baby a grown man, just makes it harder for him later when he tries to find a woman to fill those shoes. And we will NOT~ He will be left alone. Waiting on him hand and foot. So so sad, we do not live in the 30's. I guess she feeds him too.
2006-08-01 04:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that boy needs to do his own laundry, get his own food, and clean up after himself. My little brother who is 6 and my little sister is 8 do chores even thou they require help sometimes. It seems that they do more than this man dose. What is he going to do when she dies off if she dose not teach him now? And she can say what she wants but there will come a day where it will bite her in the butt and I will say I told you so!!!
2006-08-01 04:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by princeessintraning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do about it. He is 19 so its not like child abuse. No she should not be doing any of those thing but if she bites your head off you best leave her alone. she might do worse if you mess up her routine. I know College Park. Thats a rough section.
2006-08-01 04:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly NOT! He's old enough to start getting ready to leave the nest. What's he going to do when he moves out and mommy is not there to do those things for him. I feel sorry for whom ever he marries. Your story does sound kind of suspicious are you sure that's his real mom and not just a much, much older lover?
2006-08-01 04:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by scoutrylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds crazy, messed up.
You can really say anything if he's 19 yrs old.
However there are mothers out there that are super over protective. She must be one of them. Unless like you say....they could have that incestuous relationship. In which case their both sick.
2006-08-01 04:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, i dnt think coz of she is georgia woman!, she act like that coz she loves her son too much, scared of living alone, she knws one day the son will leave her for another woman, thats for sure, thats y she will try to make sure it aint happen.!! Thats not coz of she is georgia woman, its coz she is a mother!! and a lonely Mother.
2006-08-01 04:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they have some major issues. he'll be 40 and still living at home and she'll still be doing everything for him. i'm really surprised that he works though. at least he does that. of course he probably doesn't contribute a dime to the household.
2006-08-01 04:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Nova J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! She is not her kids slave.
"She sleeps in his bed and when he comes home she doesn't leave his room."
She sleeps with her son at age 19? That is creepy -- she needs to find a man....
2006-08-01 04:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by jeepfaust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait on my son even now and he's 24 years old but sure wouldn't sleep with him. That's sick! There is something wrong there. That ladies got serious problem's and he will have problem's too.
2006-08-01 04:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Linda S 43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋