2006-08-01 04:19:55 · 28 answers · asked by sammijokool96 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course that is ok. My boyfriend is older than me and nobody says or thinks anything about it. Love is love... not about age.
2006-08-01 04:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone tell you that it is wrong, unless there is a 30 year difference and then you will have to think about your future together and if you both are willing to go through a heartache, not to mention the heartache from your kids from losing their father at a young age and not to mention your emotional trauma and the constant arguments of jealousy and everything else that goes with it, every piece of emotional baggage and the the day that you wish that you had been with someone your age and then the grief over the time lost. But hey, as long as you are happy.
2006-08-01 11:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how older is he. cause u know that older boyfriends especially in the teen age go flying off with some other girls behind your back. make sure that he isn't trying to like get away from u too much.
2006-08-01 11:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥xoxo♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that whether or not it's "O.K" really depends on how old you both are. If you are both of legal age to have a consensual sexual relationship, sure, there's nothing wrong with it. Love is pretty much color-blind, age-blind, cuteness-blind, etc. But the law is only blind when it comes time to "pay the piper".
This, of course, assumes you're having a sexual relationship. If not, then "O.K." becomes a little more blurry. :-)
2006-08-01 11:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by lyf4ce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry Sammi,,, but it does depend on how old you both are. If he is 30 and you are 13, that is bad. If you are 20 and he is 40, that is OK. From a law point of view. Any further inquiries, contact me at joe010163@aol.com
2006-08-01 11:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the age difference. sure you can be in love but some age differences are dangerous. examples: ur 15 hes 18. because of the age difference it can be difficult sometimes to have a open relationship in public. laws can mess up that relationship. if u are stay aware and safe.
2006-08-01 11:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by jparhum13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is only a # unless you are under 18 and he is over 18, and then he can go to prison because of you. If you are under 18 I would stop this relationship before you get him in some real trouble!!
2006-08-01 11:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than ok. In fact, I personally prefer guys who are older than me, because guys mature later than girls. So if you go with one who is younger, you'll feel like taking care of a younger brother.
2006-08-01 11:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Angelheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are 18. Age is just a number it dosent matter as long as you are legal age.There are 12 years difference between me and my husband him being older and that dosent make me not love him because hes older.
2006-08-01 11:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling which comes from the bottom of the heart & you can not ignore it, Age is no barrier to stop one from loving him/her. Love crosses all the barriers, Wish you all the best in your life.
2006-08-02 05:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋