For 2 years I worked 1 full time job and 1 part time job to put my husband through college, so our daughter would have a better life. Now my husband is doing really well for himself, and just to keep my sanity I work 3 12 hour shifts a week at night. Since I have taken this job, my husband seems sooo different. Although, I have offered to quit my job. We have been married 4 years and together for 5. From watching my parents' relationship (there never was much love there to begin with but they have been marreid for 25 years) I never wanted my marriage to be like that, but slowly it is becoming that way. My husband is hurt and giving us a "trial period" until he packs his bags and leaves. He says things need to get better and I dont show him that I love him (which i admit i go through my routine and somtimes i forget to stop and take time for him). I hate that i hurt him and I love him more than anything, but he says words mean nothing. What should I do to keep from losing him?
2006-07-30
12:11:27
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Marriage & Divorce