What if you were dating a guy about 3 months, he takes you to see where he grew up in, he takes you to introduce you to his family, but you refuse and stay in the car instead, you still haven't made a commitment with each other. Is he trying to commit, marry you etc.
2006-07-30 12:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by Mid S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.. I cant believe you sat in the car. I understand that you didnt know what his intentions were... however it wouldn't hurt to just be socialable. If my son were to be dating a girl for 3 months.. I would want to meet the girl.. for no other reason but to put a face with the name. If I were you.. I would not assume anything until it was thrown into my face. If he asked you to marry him, etc.. then you can start worrying, but until then.. just take one day at a time.
2006-07-30 12:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have been going out for 3 months you already have made a commitment. I really doubt he would ask you out after 3 months but dont act like you are not interested in him if you are. If he does propose tell him how much you love him but your not ready and you still want to stay together a little while longer and not go to fast. DO NOT say we dont no enough about eachother yet becasue then he could always use what you did against you. He could say"i tried to show you my old house and family but you refused to see" and you will feel bad. Do not feel bad though this is too fast to get married after 3 months/.
2006-07-30 19:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to read all this into an innocent introduction. He probably felt that you were an important part of his life and wanted his family to know you and you to know them. This doesn't imply commitment or marriage, just that he wants important people to him to know each other. Of course, your rude and strange behavior has likely blown your chances with him, so this is all academic.
2006-07-30 19:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just trying to let you know about his life, maybe approve you with his parent, he sounds nice that he wants to involve you in his life, he may want to show you that he likes you enough to envolve you in his history. it kind of sounds like you might be afraid of having someone show you this kind of acceptance, and he's just being real. maybe he thinks that what girls want, (he's taking to many ideas from movies) and he want to keep you as his girlfriend, and to let you know that if it came to it he would commit if it came to it.
2006-07-30 19:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by truthbear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad logic alert! He is obviously interested in you, and he likes you enough to want his family to know who he likes. I think that's a good sign, don't you?
2006-07-30 19:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have gone in and met his family if you like him. he likes you cause he wanted you to meet his family
2006-07-30 19:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2006-07-30 19:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by TrackStar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋