Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

Look.
I have come out of a break up, she said she just needed some time by herself and BANG 3 weeks later she's with another guy.
I dont get spoken to anymore or even Acknowledged that im alive ( tho she does aviod me).

So how can one person do a dramatic turnaround, it had gone from i'd marry you in a heartbeat to what i said above? I think it is just women in general. I am not bitter or perfect, just confused that i dont get spoken to anymore as i would still like her as a friend.

This was not your 2 mth fling either, this is going on 2 yrs.

2006-07-24 03:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by toxin616 1 in Singles & Dating

My son whom i gave up for adoption, is now back in my life. he wants to change his last name to my maiden name, and i would like to go back to my maiden name, and ideas as to where i should start?

2006-07-24 03:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Jan s 1 in Family

2006-07-24 03:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by isabella-bella 1 in Friends

He says he has a hair fetish and that its harmless. It started with him just trimming my hair. I held back the tears when he cut my long hair into a crop with clippers and then I broke down when he shaved my head completely. I'm worried now because he said he wants to keep me this way. I feel so unfeminine with short hair and I think I look a fool. Wearing a wig when its warm is so uncomfiortable. I have two children nd no income so I'm afraid to leave him. Everyone thinks I am ill,Is this fetish normal? I feel so afraid

2006-07-24 03:56:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-24 03:55:56 · 10 answers · asked by milenavesic 1 in Family

Shes 15 and im 18

2006-07-24 03:55:51 · 18 answers · asked by Ray S 1 in Singles & Dating

I love sex. When im not doing it im thinking about it or reading it or watching it. Do i need help?

2006-07-24 03:55:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in my experience its cos they are fat and ugly, on the bright side they are dirty

2006-07-24 03:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by JOHN g 1 in Singles & Dating

have moved to a different county, have been seperated for a year per is the law in NC where i live

2006-07-24 03:53:41 · 11 answers · asked by csmwom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Both of us have it bad, I'm referring to my friend who wants me to ask a question for her. But first I can report since my question was answered I have been doing much better. Here is her problem: She has been seeing this guy for about 7 months, they have an agreement, where they are only sleeping with each other, but of course, after a couple of months of this she has developed feelings for him. Now here is the question, he has told her that he likes her but does not want to be in a relationship when this first began. Should she tell him that she has feelings for him now and risk scaring him off or should she just be upfront and ask where is this "relationship" going?

2006-07-24 03:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. problem 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 03:52:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anybody have any that AREN'T posted all over the internet?

2006-07-24 03:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by cooky_monster 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think your girl should still dress to impress when you go out together although she already has you? or do you like to make the guys jealous

2006-07-24 03:51:30 · 24 answers · asked by oh baby 3 in Singles & Dating

Well the thing is we have done physical and she loves me. I have discovered rather late that she isnt the girl for me and want to break up now. I have tried doing that but she wont let me go. What to do so that I can slowly remove her from my life? Or any other advice

2006-07-24 03:50:48 · 21 answers · asked by Armaan 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do I have to have sex?

2006-07-24 03:50:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 03:50:27 · 17 answers · asked by Good Gushy 4 in Singles & Dating

I am going into 10th grade and transferred to a new school over the summer. How do I make new friends when school starts? I am the shy type and people usually mistake me as a B****, but i'm really not. And everybody will have already made friends from freshman year...what should I do to make friends? because I know that I can't just wait for them to come up to me. I figure this is basically my last shot to turn myself around in high school and I want to make the best of it and have a fun time. I plan on trying out for the dance team and doing the multi-cultural club. But i need input from u people. Plus--- any suggestions where to shop for school clothes? What electives should i choose to have fun and also make new friends? Thanks!!

2006-07-24 03:49:30 · 3 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Friends

what should i do.

2006-07-24 03:49:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a 5 year old step child, i am only letting you know that he is a step child for the simple fact i want you to know of the situation. otherwise i would say child. anyways, what kind of disciplinary acts am i entitled to have as a stepfather when the real father isnt around much. He tells him not to listen to me ect. he gets him maybe for a day or two, two to three times a month. there is no child support or anything, but thats a different question. it just seems that putting him in the corner nor put him in his room has worked. i have swatted his *** or his hand a time or two, but would rather not spank him. I find that nothing really works. what should i do? also what fun things around the house should i do with him on the weekends around the house when mom is at work. i would like to try to stay inside because i would rather my 4 month old daughter not be in the heat. please be specific in your answer.

2006-07-24 03:49:01 · 7 answers · asked by daniel e 3 in Family

Or whether do you wish to suggeset another one ? The girl is eight years old and sooo lovely and pinky.....!!!!

2006-07-24 03:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by indraraj22 4 in Family

My bf and I have been together for more than a year and I trust him an he trusts me. He has grauated from school and before me he had alot of girl trying to talk to him and he still does. I trust himbut I dont like these (I'm sorry) bytches all on my man. the other day I wasn't there but He told me about it. This girl that likes him from since way back came up to him saying, "Hey baby" and tell her friend that he (my bf) was her baby forever... Now I'ma black woman wit a black person's attitude. If I was there you aready know stuff would've poped off. But I wasn't. She alwayz pop up when I not there. It's like this with a alot of girls. Should I look for the girl to handle it my self or wait to see her, or ignore it??HElp

2006-07-24 03:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is good if you tell them you love them, but what have you done to show them how much you care?

2006-07-24 03:47:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 03:47:45 · 6 answers · asked by Niya 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband of 4 years jus split up and he moved out, he does alot of drugs and drinking.... its been a month now and my 2 kids (3yr old son & 2 yr old daughter) seem to be acting aggressive and upset all the time .. they are not listening or following directions at home or in school. My husband hasnt seen them since he moved out a month ago I dont let them visit cuz of his drug problem. And i'm living with my mom for now and he cant come there to visit. do u think this is affecting the kids behavior if so wha should i do????

2006-07-24 03:47:33 · 18 answers · asked by xxcaramelqt19xx 2 in Family

for me it's: LL Cool J, Mama said knock u out! (i'm not violent, its just a phat song)

2006-07-24 03:46:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i were shopping around for some nice, but cheap wedding rings and need some more ideas. i wear a size 3 1/2 and i was set on getting one from walmart, but they don't make them smaller than a 5. (that's what the lady at the counter said.)
it seems like everywhere else i checked they are so expensive. i don't have much money to use for the rings right now, and i don't even like rings that much anyway, so i don't want to spend so much money on them that i will get buyers remorse...
we have a small budget and want to have more money for a honeymoon and trip to visit our families in Michigan.(we live in florida)
i tried ebay, but that is just a mess. there is too much on there to even find anything...
so...what worked for you?

2006-07-24 03:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by VANDALEYES 2 in Weddings

Why am I riduculed for being a virgin and waiting out for marriage?

2006-07-24 03:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They have a 4 year old together, and this happened months ago but i feel like total crap for not telling her, they are having problems anyway and i feel like her and her son deserve better, what should i do?

2006-07-24 03:44:43 · 47 answers · asked by Alie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

At times I get a sense that something isnt quite 'right' with someone I Iove. Last week I got this sinking feeling in my gut at the thought of my boyfriend, I dont know what it means, but i am tempted to investigate........what do you think?

2006-07-24 03:44:28 · 22 answers · asked by blu_jui 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were more than bf and gf. Ex. she wrote me a letter after an argument we had. She expressed all her feeling and she was gonna try. I put on my shades and got in my car and as i drove threw the letter out the window without reading it. I wish i could say i was sorry. This happen like a year ago, but she brought it up last time i saw her

2006-07-24 03:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating