Well the thing is we have done physical and she loves me. I have discovered rather late that she isnt the girl for me and want to break up now. I have tried doing that but she wont let me go. What to do so that I can slowly remove her from my life? Or any other advice
2006-07-24 03:50:48 · 21 answers · asked by Armaan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no slowly, just flat out break it off. You slowly doing it will only hurt her more.
2006-07-24 04:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to handle one sided love, I hate to answer these heart breaking questions. Someone, somewhere may get hurt.
Anyways, you deserve an answer. You can try by pretending to her that you are pre-occupied in some more serious involvement, may be job front, personal life or financial crisis. Try to avoid her calls, personal meetings by using these tools. Gradually, her addiction for you would decrease & you may smoothly walk out of her life, without hurting her feelings.
Don't get involved in any affair during this time or else the situation may get worst for you to handle & she may think that you are betraying her. Removing people from life is rather tough sometimes, so better be careful next time, in choosing the right girl.
2006-07-24 11:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you are just like me.... i cant break someones heart or tell them how i really feel, cuz id rather spare their feelings then mine but trust me.... it will do more harm than good on you, i know everyone says that life is short. but it really is break up with her... tell her that you not happy, even pass the blame on u, say you not ready, say its not her its you... even though its not, it might make her go away! im sorry you stuck in this mess... but do what you have to do, to be happy
2006-07-24 10:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it slowly. You're not saving her feelings, you're just dragging out the hell and worry. Just break up clean and let her get over you.
2006-07-24 10:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try 2 break-up with her by a text. Talk it over with her. Tell her how u feel. Don't hold back.
2006-07-24 11:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by momo_2_fly_4_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you're taking her out for your anniversary (or whatever) and that the restaurant is a surprise, so she has to wear a blindfold. drive out to the desert, and ditch her.
2006-07-24 10:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by list 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her you just want to be friends. That will make it easier to phase her out.
2006-07-24 10:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told her it's over, then it's over. Just avoid her, get a new girl and move on.
2006-07-24 10:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by David B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she catches you cheating on her with another girl. Then she will hate your freakin guts.
2006-07-24 10:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with u dude...ok....now what u do is start avoid her slow ly that the only way man...dont be rude dont be sudden slowly it will fade away ......
2006-07-24 10:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by ankit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋