Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

We were in an on-off relationship for 3 yrs. Last Feb. we had a big fight n he called me names, he said he never loved me n all he wanted was s*x, n that he was not interested anymore coz i don have a nice body, he also sold a very precious thing of mine that he had borrowed from me n i was really furious. now he called back sayin that he was really sorry for being an a**hole n that he regrets saying n doing that n that he wants me to forgive him, i really love him n i know he does but will i ever be able to forget the abuse? will i ever be able to trust him back? he's askin for a second chance but i'm afraid i'll be hurt again. Do i give him a 2nd chance? he cheated on me last yr n i forgave him, i also know that he doesnt feel secure in this relationship bcoz he proposed to me n i refused bcoz he's of a different relegion n he doesn't have a job. He's now saying that he can't live without me n that he needs me in his life. I'm really confused coz i know i love him. am 26 he's 27

2006-07-24 03:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by Alien (Tribute to Sting!) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like everyone is so happy with their significant other. I find one, but it never lasts with mine. Oh, I realize that "Mr. Right" hasn't showed up, but why in the hell does every other Mr. Right have to show up for everyone else??!!

2006-07-24 03:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by Laurissa DLP 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 03:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by pdd 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 3 months now. He has his son one night a week and every other weekend. I also have kids, mine are 11 and 13. All kids can be difficult at times, but his son will order us around and refuse to do what he is told. He does little to fix this issue.

I would never ask him to choose between me and son, but I also will not be subjected to a temper tantrum in public every time he doesn't get his own way. I wouldn't put up with it from my own children. I want to offer to help him fix this behavior, is that the right path or should I just end it?

Other than this issue, we get along great, we only have trouble when his son is with us and I get so frustrated.

2006-07-24 03:00:53 · 39 answers · asked by Christina 4 in Singles & Dating

After my ex and I drifted apart I insisted that I can handle what ever was going on with him. I knew that knowing would give me closure and if it was something that I did wrong I could learn from this mistake and move on to the next relationship. I really appreciated him being open and honest. yes it was painful but all I said was "ok " and we went our separate ways no accusations no arguments no sarcastic remarks.

2006-07-24 02:59:56 · 6 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 02:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by Shondell J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have green eyes brown ash hair im 5`6 110lbs.tanned white italian head cheerleader/surfer 32c. so i would expect a guy with hazel or blue eyes with a perfect athletic built(6 pack) brown or blond hair tall 6`1 tanned well he has to relate to the same way i look cause if i look great the guy has to.so tell me guys what do u look like and what do u expect!

2006-07-24 02:58:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 02:58:32 · 5 answers · asked by ein 1 in Friends

2006-07-24 02:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by tshingk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've already finished 1yr. of college and have 1 &1/2 yrs left. Or I can quit & get a job as a postal worker making $18/hr. My financial situation is beyond bad. Should I hang in there with college (I'm studying to be an accountant) or get a job with the USPS? It's a job that will always be there, I'm already 26 yrs old, and I have a child to help support. What should I do?

2006-07-24 02:57:06 · 11 answers · asked by goddess17 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 02:56:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i always want a friend who tell me that

2006-07-24 02:54:55 · 14 answers · asked by tina 1 in Friends

First of all, if you are a negative person who was in a bad relationship and have come to the conclusion that conflict between two people means to "give up", Please do not try to give me advice. My partner and I are interested in working things out.

I'm looking for a better and much more healthier relationship with my fiancee. Things aren't so bad between us. Just lack of understanding eachother. We act like any other cupple does in conflict, playing the "Blame Game" and insisting on who's right and who's wrong. We have the same nasty nature in us to verbally and emotionally abuse eachother just as common in most relationships.
Do you know of any good programs that teach on better communication skills to help put "the spark" back in our relationship and show us how to get along much better?

2006-07-24 02:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-24 02:54:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u do IM me

2006-07-24 02:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by LoVE LiFE 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years but almost every night for the past week ive been having dreams of cheating on him and breaking up with him

i was just wondering if anyone knows what a dream like that means...is it time to leave him? (conciously im happy with him, but obviously subconsiously im not)...anyone have any ideas?

2006-07-24 02:53:23 · 22 answers · asked by *princess* 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 02:53:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What makes guys so afraid of getting married? When would they like to get married and what age? How do they know they are ready for marriage? Finally do they know for sure they are ready to settle down? and Why?

2006-07-24 02:53:03 · 28 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Singles & Dating

I am one of them ?!

2006-07-24 02:52:25 · 10 answers · asked by xxxXAshXxxx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 02:51:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom and step dad are gettin divorced and me and my boyfriend just moved in w/ them my mom wants us to either move out or help her pay all her bills im plannin on movin out cuz i cant afford them im only 17..so now i dont know if i should move in with my dad or my b'f back in indiana ..i want to go to dads so i can be stable but my b'f will get mad but i think he should go to college at the university that he wants which is in indiana..he wants me to go with him if he cant come to my dads wich i know he cant im so confused i dont know what i should do ?!

2006-07-24 02:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by kmspoiledbrat78 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know a guy who treats me with tender n' says i'm in his heart but when i tried to know if he really loves me he said no ur just best friend for me...i dunno waht to do in fact i don't love him but i loved his concern n' truly i need to b loved by someone i like no matter who!!! what can i do to get rid of this feeling. help plz

2006-07-24 02:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by fluer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 02:47:35 · 25 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

but our relation ship i feel like wanting the beginning back u know lots of kiss cuddle ect... my bloke is kurdish so i cant eat pig or go out with out him and where a skirt, not drink alcohol unless we r going out somewhere special like barbee on the beach help me decide

2006-07-24 02:46:59 · 34 answers · asked by kim in guildford 1 in Weddings

We wanted to have a seance so we all sat in a circle each holding a candle and I was the leader and I said "All join hands now and quiet" and we all held hands, and then I said "Visualize the dead with blank faces and hold that image in your minds" and then I said "Father Satan bring forth the dead from hell that can help us all win friends and influence people and have money and a successful life. We all bless you as we also bless the spirit world and we didicate our souls to you now and forever if you will do these things for us. Then one by one we asked Satan for what we wanted. Sally said "I want a Mercedes Benz" and I said "I want a handsome man with a good job and money." David said (LOL) "Bring me a girl with bigger knockers than ________" But after we all said our wishes for some reason the candles all blew out and it was real weird and my heart was pounding for a moment. I hope it works LOL! It was fun anyway and harmless I am told.

2006-07-24 02:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to the store to pick some stuff up for our honeymoon. What are some extra romantic things I can add to my cart??????

2006-07-24 02:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She always looks at me and wears the same colour dress that I wore the previous day ,is it just coincidence?

2006-07-24 02:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by Karthik 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 02:45:11 · 10 answers · asked by Turbot Face 2 in Singles & Dating

if so,explain it

2006-07-24 02:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there's not really exactly a problem, it's just that my boyfriend and my best friend are really good friends. They have parties together and stuff, and I never really bothered w/ it....I just don't know how comfortable w/ it. I love my boyfriend, and my best friend is amazing and I wouldn't give her up for anything, but it's just strange to see them getting along so well....

I definitely don't want to dump my boyfriend, or give up my best friend.

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can become more comfortable w/ the situation?

2006-07-24 02:43:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anna R 1 in Friends