But here is the thing!! He wants to get married right away, and have kids as soon as we are married andthats not what I want. He kept saying yesterday, "well if you say you want to spend the rest of you life with me then why not go on and marry me"? I do want to spend the rest of my life with him, im just not ready to get married yet...Really I feel like we are already married I have dated him for almost 4 years, and I have to ask "permisson" be4 I go out with my friends, b4 I buy something, be4 I go somewhere (I had to actually ask him if it would be okay if I went on vacation with my family1) I love him, I really do, but im not ready to be married! Im not going to be able to have time for a married life when I start college, because im going full-time, and im playing basketball so were going to have practice every night and nights that we dont have practice im going to have a game and Im also going to try to keep a job in between that!! Please help what do I do????????
2006-07-24
01:45:02
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Samantha Wright
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Marriage & Divorce