I have been with my guy for sometime (6 years), and I am ready to get married and he isn't. He has given me various excuses; first it was "I just got out of school, let me get a job and then once I save up some $ then..." That was about 3 years ago. Now his excuse is that he has saved up enough, and is worried he won't be able to buy a house. I understand a man's need to be stable in his life before he adds on another...but still..
Also, for the past year or so he kept bugging me to move in with him and stay with him and I kept saying no...and then I finally said I am willing to move in, all he has to do is marry me, and then a few weeks later he stopped bugging me...So, when I recently brought up the marriage thing again he was like what's the rush? He said that people who are ready for marriage are people who are ready to move in together and be with each other all the time and stuff, and he thinks we are still young and not settled enough.I am 25 and he is 27 & he has a good job
2006-07-24
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