My ex, we were together for nearly a year, has been proposed to 3 times by ex girlfriends.
He said the reason he turned them all down was because he never loved anyone enogh to want to marry them.
He's 31, still goes clubbing every weekend!
He says he never ever wants to get married, not that l wanted to marry him, but he's 31 and dumped me by txt after a year together, l could understand that from a 19 year old, but not a 31 year old.
He meet another girl when he was out clubbing!
Shes 22, l was 19.
2006-07-24 01:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
l want him to end up alone because of what he did to me.
2006-07-24 01:34:59 · update #1
The guy is an immature, insecure, egotistical wreck, and you are better off without him. He will probably end up a sad lonely old man. If he can dump you by text after a year together, he is also incredibly shallow. You deserve better, and should he decide he wants you back, run like hell, he doesn't care enough about you or your feelings, and he doesn't respect you. Sounds like he doesn't care about himself or respect himself either, and men like that are trouble. I wish I had learned that at 19, instead I went through a whole series of disastrous men like that thinking that I was the problem. He will probably one day realise what he is missing out on, by which time i hope you are well settled with someone who loves you and values you. Another five years and he will be one of the oldest on the dancefloor, feeling ever so slightly silly, the girls he does meet, if any, will be on a totally different wavelength to him and he won't have much in common. After a life of meeting girls in bars and clubs, he won't have a clue how to really socialise with the kind of people he will need to be around, and he will be loneley. Thankfully, it wont be your probloem by then.
2006-07-24 01:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tefi 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He is one of those men who will never commit because they are afraid too. Maybe one day he will find someone he loves enough to marry, but |I doubt it. He sounds very immature and is clinging to his youth by going clubbing every weekend and going out with girls much younger than him. He has a HUGE ego!! Accept that he has dumped you and that you have possibly had a narrow escape from a lot of unhappiness. Find someone nearer your own age next time who will want to be with you and do the same things that you want to do. I am sure you will have no problem. Good luck and just forget about him and move on.
2006-07-24 08:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through a similar thing a few months back.I think It's because he is missing being 18 and wants to relive his youth. Unless he grows up quickly he will become a seedy old man (only works at that age for George clooney. He's scared to settle down!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 13:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia beaverhausen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will marry and believe me it will be a hottie, men have the advantage coz when they wanna tie the knot they set out to look for the girl and believe you me when they spot her it may not take upto six months of dating they will commit at their own time, esp the type you are talking about
its simple he was not that into you and was using you, he will pay at his own time if he isnt already
sorry but some men cannot take being proposed to they wanna do it themselfs could be the reason he never married those babes
2006-07-24 09:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either two things will happen. He'll either change eventually and settle down, or he never will.
They say women really mature and settle down in their late 20s and men in their late 30s. Sounds about right to me.
Good luck to you. I'm sure you will find someone who appreciates you more. You seem like a nice person.
2006-07-24 08:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only 31. Plenty of time to change his mind about getting married.
2006-07-24 08:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does end up a sad lonely old man its his own fault! Why do you even care love? He dumped you by text - you should be hoping he DOES end up lonely and sad.
He sounds like a fool and I wouldnt bother or waste your time even wondering about him!
2006-07-24 08:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girl..I hate to say this but he just wasn't that into you! It's hard to tell if he will ever change but you know one thing..he hasn't!! Just remember ..someone better will come along..they always do!!!Good luck!!
2006-07-24 08:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him live his life!!
And find someone suitable for you...
2006-07-24 08:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by M.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋