at a recent party was talking to another man who was clearly flirting with her and she was a little flirty with him, although when he suggested they go off to watch one of the bands playing she turned him down. about 30 minutes later he left to chat with others there. Then after 30-45 minutes she said she was going toilet and went off with her female freind but did not come back for about an hour! Do you think I am being silly for being jealous and questioning what she did, should she flirt at a party and tell me its okay because she loves me. I dont think she would cheat on me! She did explain where she had been for the hour, and I have no reason to doubt it!
2006-07-24 01:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by Nick B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry about it. Lots of people like flirting - assuming it stops there, it's very safe sex! If you have no reason to doubt her explanation for her absence, then you have no reason to doubt her.
By the way, it's normal enough to FEEL a little jealous, but don't think about it any more.
2006-07-24 01:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by nige_but_dim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok babes, being a girlfriend myself, I can safely say Id never do what she did to you. not only was it ignorant, but inconsiderate. If she had nothing to hide why lie about going to the toilet? Also when youre at a party together - youre TOGETHER so you dont go off flirting with someone else.
As for explaining where she'd been - again - why lie in the first place.
Sorry to be harsh but she sounds like bad news - Id dump her and find yourself a loyal girlfriend
2006-07-24 01:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do think there is reason to doubt or you would not post this...
I'm sorry, but an hour?
Defend your position (TO YOURSELF) if you have no reason to doubt
No-one needs an untrustworthy partner so do yourself a favour and either be honest, there is no need to worry OR be honest, there IS
Either way, it is not YOU to blame here ------ talk to her. If you can communicate, then there is probably nothing to panic about. Good luck...
2006-07-30 19:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sorry but i totally agree with you the minute one decides to date a person they should chain all those so called "outgoing" characteristics and flirting is totally out it should not be entertained, where was she for one hr? i think you need to evaluate if you totallt trust her if not ditch her find someone who makes you feel secure and on top of the list of all men in the world
its one thing to be outgoing its another to flirt and make your partner insecure i dont entertain such coz its wrong
2006-07-24 02:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason for all troubles are doughts , if you love some one leave them free like a bird , if it is your's will come back to you again and again . E njoy life ,don't think more .
2006-07-24 01:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y is she flirting? you dont have to be joined at the hip ,but you might not be givng her enough attention,how long have you been together? if its a new relatonship, forget her ,flirting is fun and ok , but talking? or what ever with girlfriend she obviously doesnt have that much thought for you.
2006-07-27 02:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by peanuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i must admit im a little flirty wiv blokes but id neva cheat on my boyfriend eva his 2 good 4 me dont give her reasons 2 sray wiv ur jealousy i hope it all works ot 4 u soon
2006-07-24 02:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for question like this its very easy to be that third man - watch, enjoy and suggest - but for those like you, its really a difficult territory.
we all have insecurities and suspicions over different things. its not easy not to be suspicious. and its even difficult to live with it and try to pretend nothing happened or it wont happen to me. the best thing is to make sure your partner knows your comfort zone. don't forget to remind her that she means more than anything for you and that you have nothing but good intention. tell her that you respect her feelings and that she respect yours. if she has the best intentions for you.. she will heed to it.
2006-07-31 07:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kirati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go together and leave together dont worry
every one deserves the freedom to mix with other people
it does not mean the want to be with someone else
relax and do the same
2006-07-31 12:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by elaine c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not too good to do that while you are ben accompanied by an opposite sex .it is rude and shows that such a person is uncultured. however ithink you can still talk it over and let your feelings show
2006-07-31 07:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋