Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

Some people argue that people who aren't black shouldn't adopt black children, yet a very low percentage of black people adopt kids. The National
Association of African American Social Workers worked to dispel black children being adopted by different races in the early 80s and ever since then the number of black children in foster care has doubled. I feel they need a family, no matter what color.

2006-07-24 01:09:25 · 6 answers · asked by hollywoodqueen_2000 2 in Family

2006-07-24 01:08:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like my husband and afraid to give divorce but i hate his
appearence and cant find strength in me to lead life with him and he is also much older than me nearly about 16-17 years,most of the time he fails to do what i require
. iam in a dellema wheather to give divorce or live with him since 9
years of marriage.
iam suffering every sec of my life please advice me to over come this life threatening problem of mine.

2006-07-24 01:07:16 · 10 answers · asked by minhaj_j01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

PLZ HELP ME.
How could i be irresistable for him SO that he always want me? and chase me?!

2006-07-24 01:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by yashar 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend said that he likes to watch porn, or look at it. It hurts to think that my boyfriend is masterbating to another girl. It makes me feel ugly and usless like I don't do the job right. Does anyone else feel like this? What should I do to end my jealousy. I know guys are going to look at other females. I just want to end my feelings of hurt.

2006-07-24 01:05:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 01:05:20 · 17 answers · asked by sitting bull 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

O.k i have the most annoyingest brother that act like stuart on Mad T.V. !!! He's the best brother in the world but it does get annoying and i don't know how 2 fix it!!

2006-07-24 01:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by kayla l 1 in Family

2006-07-24 01:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by kaju 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel ashamed & Burning when I found her looking & keeping on staring (Eye to Eye Contact) Passing smiles, etc., to other males regardless their age / Looks etc, if its male its enough for her & she has a habbit of doing so.
I am reasonably handsome & much better in the Bed & she always says I am satisfied from you..
I love her a lot & told her that It will ruin the relation between us but all in vain.... I give her time attention & reasonable expenses as she desires means everything..
Currently She is Pregnant & in the 9th Month, Even Now?
I am unable to Teach her or Stop her or understand the reason for this so poor Lust.
I accept that when some one Good Looking Come before we loose our Control & start seeing to her. But If a Lady can dare to have eye to Eye Contact with man over her father's Age... Pass on Smiles...
Whenever she comes to my office she applies the same with lower level staff also. So I feel very Bad the day she comes.

Please Advise me what should I do?

2006-07-24 01:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by Beware_I'm_Here 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ie did you start off as friends and end up together? how did it start? did it end? who made the leap? was it worth it? how close were you beofre you got together?

2006-07-24 01:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated this guy 8 years ago. I was deeply in love with him. I broke up with him b/c he was cheating with lot of girls. While dating, I had twins by him, raising them alone. I push him away if his visit were not for his children. His girlfriend (now is his wife) was always making excuses to come to my house alone. For ex: my twins visit them weekly, and she would "accidently" forget something so that she could come to my house to see if he was there, or she has pictures to show of my sons, none which I can have. Six years go by, she's is now getting married, she tells my daughter she is getting marry to my ex and my daughter tells me & I look up and there she is stretching her neck to see me. I pretend I don't see her. My question: Me and my ex has not been together for years. I stay to myself always and mind my own business. Why does she do these things when shes GOT the man, & there is no competition. Shes married to the man. He comes home to her, not me. Dont get it!!!!

2006-07-24 01:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by qweenbee236 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 01:01:05 · 15 answers · asked by Lady_Lavinia 3 in Singles & Dating

major social problem how do you make friends in the real world because what ever am doing it's not working so give me ideas on how to make friends.help!!!

2006-07-24 01:00:18 · 5 answers · asked by meme 2 in Friends

He's really into pericings and Tatooes and works in a parlour, He is the first person to really make me feel special and says he wants to make me his work of art, My parents are so against anything like that but I feel If I do this for him he will know I really love him, I thinks its a lot easier to get removed now and If I use makeup on it no one will notice when I dont want them to.

2006-07-24 01:00:00 · 48 answers · asked by monica x 2 in Singles & Dating

What r all the expectations from your boy-friend while Dating...?

2006-07-24 00:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anand 1 in Singles & Dating

i m 25 years .i remain in touch with a who is at the age of 31 now for the 1 and a half month.i met him only once in the last one and a half year.he did not touch but we continued talking on phone late nights..In our conversation we talk espasially verble S..*. but we never met.we both love each other.now last week before we met again then he touched me 1st time as he kissed me for the 1st time ever and touched me for the 1st time ever... we met 6 times...but we did not do the sex..as we talked about it daily.now in last meeting he insisted me two time to do sex..and force me but i stoped him... we met last time on Thursday....when he went after meeting me then he always call me but he did not kall me that day nor he talked to me on net..today is Monday..and till this day he did not connect me.i send him many msgs..but he did not reply.and i know he is online but he doid not talk to me.. Plz help me i want to know form u people that whether he loves my BODY.so some other problem.

2006-07-24 00:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a long distant relationship and i love my girl more than everything,am faithfull and loyal to her but i am afraid she don't trust me.What can i do?

2006-07-24 00:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what are you proud of?

2006-07-24 00:54:26 · 8 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was inspired to write this after reading about another person who’s 39 and never had a girlfriend. So here’s my situation; I’m a white male on the verge of my 39th birthday, and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I can assume that the problem is with me, there are several factors that may account for being of the psychological make up for this dilemma:

1. I grew up with a physically abusive father and a some what less physically abusive, but also psychologically and verbally abusive mother.

2.I had two older brothers, both of whom never wanted to spend any time with me, and three older sisters. My oldest sister had a nasty bitter divorce and stayed with my parents along with me and my 3rd oldest sister, my oldest was very angry and verbally abusive toward me. My second oldest sister was much like my two older brothers, not wishing to spend any time with me. My third oldest sister was much like myself, shy, introverted.

3.Growing up wasn’t easy. I grew up overweight (still am to this day), shy, nervous. I had worked for my parents from the time I was 11 and was not permitted to do much else beyond that and school; thing like camping or vacations and family outings were alien concepts to me . My oldest sister kept moving in and out of the house well into my twenties, developing drug problems along the way, and having several unpleasant episodes in my family‘s house that way. My 3rd oldest sister never bloomed, became grossly overweight and developed several illnesses including paranoid schizophrenia ; she eventually died from a rare circulatory illness at the age of 33.

4. I managed to start making friends after high school, even managed to find creative pursuits, but being so inexperienced in dealing with people I found myself bungling friendships with people, expecting to much from them or behaving inappropriately. In my immediate circle, I found my self to be the runt of the pack.

5. I was able to get myself to go to college, but I always felt like I was beyond my station or social class to do so. I currently have two low paying jobs that barely pay my bills while I pursue a modestly, quasi passable career in the arts. I’ve been in and out of therapy, had several nervous breakdowns, and have been on anti depressants.

I wonder how these thing factor into why I have never had a girlfriend. I’m pretty sure I’m not gay. I have had sex (rarely, and mostly paid for. I’ve asked women out (though rarely), and I’ve also been careful not to go into the maudlin details of my home life growing up. I fear it will never happen for me, that somehow, I’m too damaged to ever be able to have a relationship with a woman. Where should I start in going about fixing myself? This problem with women has become monumental for me. I fear I’m on the verge of another breakdown, and would like to know if there is a way to get myself straightened out.

2006-07-24 00:53:37 · 17 answers · asked by CDB88 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 00:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dating this guy for 3yrs never sleep with him because am saving it for marriage but my sister on the other hand had sex with him, her excuse was if am not giving it up someone has to and that person might as well be her,will you forgive her i got rid of the guy.

2006-07-24 00:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by meme 2 in Family

what do you look for in a guy? does he have to be hott to?

2006-07-24 00:51:33 · 7 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 00:50:32 · 27 answers · asked by mr.bishi_24 2 in Singles & Dating

my great grandma started doing it when she got older, i could never figure out why. my grandma hasnt started it yet, she's in her 60's. i would just love to ask an old person why they do that, but im too chicken.

2006-07-24 00:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

becos u meant or just 2 get 2 points!!!!!!!!

2006-07-24 00:48:17 · 22 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Friends

i hav a bf since 2 yrs. but in june is joind a salsa class n askd him also 2 join but he avoided sayin tht he has gym at tht time. a very sweet guy offered me 2 b my partner in dance class n i caled up my bf n told hem. he sounded quite cool but next day i startd getting my bf's rude,taunting n abusive mesgs sayin tht i love tht guy n should hav sex with him,remove my clothes in dance class etc. i mesgd my bf n told him tht i don lov my partner etc but in vain. he told me tht he will get investigation done n if somthing wrong he finds out, he will not reply or contact me. same thing hapned n its been 45 days v havnt talked. he doesnt reply me mesgs n doesnt even look at me. i kept mesgin til 10july n gav last mesg tht after this mesg ill start 4geting u but he didnt reply. on 21july i saw him on road n ignored n i got his mesg"when i see u, my blood boils n i feel like throwing stone at ur car". WAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN? DOES HE LOVE ME STILL?WILL HE 4GET ME COZ V RNT TALKING ?

2006-07-24 00:47:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-24 00:47:29 · 2 answers · asked by bill 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-07-24 00:46:58 · 26 answers · asked by louise 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together 10 years, married 4. Since we got married he puts our RELATIONSHIP as second priority, always spends all his time on sports - every spare minute he gets so there is no time to do things for our relationship eg we havent done our garden or front wall for 4 years bc there is no time. We fight all the time bc he wants to do his own stuff - we dont seem to agree on values or priorties anymore. I have tried and tried but we fight 80% of the time. If i try to talk to him, he shuts down and wont communicate. I feel like we have grown apart but am too scared and dont know how to start on my own. We started dating at 20 and now we are 32 so life has always been together. There are a lot more complicated issues like he lost his job bc he got depression and this lead to no job for 2 years which placed a great deal of pressure on us. I stood by him but i feel like he takes me for granted and its all about him. Do i leave or continue? i do i make the break. I am cofussed.

2006-07-24 00:45:25 · 16 answers · asked by eservices t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Nowadays, people casually meet online.. they chat, share ideas, stories, experiences..and even emotions.. and later, you find yourself so much in sync with the other across the net.. and develop fondness for each other.. and maybe, love... whether within your city, country or across the globe, how can you hold on to someone you never actually meet in the real world?

2006-07-24 00:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by elysia76 1 in Friends