My boyfriend said that he likes to watch porn, or look at it. It hurts to think that my boyfriend is masterbating to another girl. It makes me feel ugly and usless like I don't do the job right. Does anyone else feel like this? What should I do to end my jealousy. I know guys are going to look at other females. I just want to end my feelings of hurt.
2006-07-24 01:05:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
enjoy with him, stop feeling jeolous. otherwise you also shag on the guy in the porn movie.
2006-07-24 01:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 5⤊ 7⤋
Even if you spice up your sex life with him he will never stop watching porn.I believe that when we (men) look at to much porn we begin to think that what we see is what sex is suppose to be like in every day life and that the way he wants to have sex with you.You need to have a sit down talk with him and make sure he understands that those people on the videos are in fact JUST PAID ACTORS nothing more and if threes something more that he feels he needs in your sex life he needs to tell you what it is.Hope this helps in some way,good luck.
2006-07-24 01:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men...watch...porn. It's what porn was invented for. Men masturbate. They can't help it. Your boyfriend is not doing it just to make you jealous. Women on a video or on TV are not even real, they are just images. Your boyfriend cannot interact with them or leave you for them. If you are insecure and obsessed enough to the extent that this is making you feel hurt and jealous, perhaps you should seek professional help.
2006-07-24 01:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The first thing you need to realize is that those girls are like barbie dolls. They are made up, spray painted and completely fake. Their job is to look like that while making the video. You are beautiful in your own way. Your boyfriend sees it in you, otherwise he wouldn't be with you. Besides, guys will masterbate to anything with two legs and breasts. Don't worry, it's normal and you shouldn't feel like you do because of it.
2006-07-24 01:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be jealous only if he wanted to have sex with real porn starts or prostitutes. Many men enjoy playing with his toy alone but still love and get aroused by their girls. You should enjoy porn for women yourself and enjoying your toy by yourself sometimes too. If still it is not your thing, why don't you start staring to other men when you are with your BF and when he complains you can tell him that he has being doing the same to you by staring to the porn sites? I think that he message will reach his brain then!
2006-07-24 01:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sissy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well u should tell him that u dont like him watching porn while u are around makes u feel hurt. if he cares bout u he will not. although if hes alone he should be welcome to watch it. u shouldnt feel jealous. u c guys do look at others but they shouldnt do it in front of u. thats wrong and only causes drama. i think u should just be open and tell him. if he likes u he will understand. just if hes alone he may watch what he pleases. so yeah good luck
2006-07-24 01:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP YOU IDIOT!!!!!!!
this dude is so disrespectful, how do you let him treat you like this. you are obviously not doing the job right if he has to resort to doing that. you are being jealous of a model, helllllllllooo dont you know she has make up on and is made to look attractive and remember the camera adds on a couple of kilograms. if you dont become a tiger in the bed you are on your way to doomsville with this relationship. end it because he is only suppose to be looking at you.
2006-07-24 01:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by rascal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try watching it with him. I started and I get so turned on now, just sitting on the sofa with him watching porn, touching each other, sex is a lot more enjoyable now, and it also makes you try new things and open up to each other about your sexual fantasies. Just try it!
2006-07-24 01:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by secret2009 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try watching it with him.
something i have learned about men is that they are stimulated much more by visual erotica and women seem to be stimulated more by written erotica. i'm sure this isn't true in every case, but from my experiences, it seems to hold true.
every guy i have dated has watched porn..they have all masterbated to porn..but i'm the one who they came to bed with or came home to...not the girls in the porn.
2006-07-24 01:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-24 23:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've asked him not to watch it or buy it and he still does, then he obviously does not respect you. To masturbate while watching and you're sitting there is a double disgrace. This leads to infidelity in the long run. I say dump him if he doesn't stop, or he'll eventually dump you in the long run.
2006-07-24 01:12:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋