i love my bf n plz don sugest me to leave him, tell a solution 2 make him contact me.wil he contact if ignore?

Question

i hav a bf since 2 yrs. but in june is joind a salsa class n askd him also 2 join but he avoided sayin tht he has gym at tht time. a very sweet guy offered me 2 b my partner in dance class n i caled up my bf n told hem. he sounded quite cool but next day i startd getting my bf's rude,taunting n abusive mesgs sayin tht i love tht guy n should hav sex with him,remove my clothes in dance class etc. i mesgd my bf n told him tht i don lov my partner etc but in vain. he told me tht he will get investigation done n if somthing wrong he finds out, he will not reply or contact me. same thing hapned n its been 45 days v havnt talked. he doesnt reply me mesgs n doesnt even look at me. i kept mesgin til 10july n gav last mesg tht after this mesg ill start 4geting u but he didnt reply. on 21july i saw him on road n ignored n i got his mesg"when i see u, my blood boils n i feel like throwing stone at ur car". WAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN? DOES HE LOVE ME STILL?WILL HE 4GET ME COZ V RNT TALKING ?

Answer 1

Well I think your boyfriend is overreacting okay tell him that in dance class you weren't trying to replace him you just need a partner and this guy asked first you were cool at first why not now. I didn't have an affair with it is just that you might move a little close in dance moves and if I talked to him sorry that it looked like flirting. but I don't understand at all but I do love you and if you don't love me back I will suffer so tell me why are you mad and......Do you still love me.

Answer 2

i dont want to hurt your feeling but by the looks of things you seem desperate and have a low self asteem. you dont need this guy or this kind of crap in your life. if he really loved you he would not be acting like this in the first place,i know it will be hard but i think that you should try to move on with your life. your relationship lacks trust and without it whats the point in trying to make it work. you say abusive messages, come now think about it is that love. DONT FALL FOR HIS TACTICS!!!!!!!!!!! Lose him and find someone who will appreciate you and further more take you to dance class. if he really loves you he'd do anything to make you happy.

Answer 3

It doesn't matter if your grammar is not at par with the rest as long as you manage to deliver your thought across which I think you did. But yes I agree on the first advice, move on. If you choose otherwise, then prepare the worst yet to come. He's capable of hurting you physically. Would you like to end up battered woman? Your call.

Answer 4

tell him that u and the salsa partner is nothing, u just had to find somebody to dance with b/c yr bf did not come, and tell yr bf that u still want to be with him, but be careful at what u say, this is a tough situation so just let ur bf know how much u like him but be careful!

Answer 5

this guy is a control freak. you have done something independent and he hates it. he is using this dance class to exuse his bad behavior. since he doesn't want to dance, he think you should not too,and by joining, he knows he lost control. by mesg. him, he is confident that you will break done and be his 'good little girl' this way, he will get total control over you. your allready showing him what a wimp you are. stop it. if you give over to him, whats next? stop talking to all your friends? family? don't leave the house unless he appoves? don't speak till your spoken too?
hey if you want to live like that,dump the class, get on your knees, and kiss his feet and swear to him that you are his puppet to do his will. don't make eye contact with another guy-EVER-and be meek as a mouse.
or get to class, enjoy yourself,get on with your life,and if you see him on the street, ignore him, change you cell number,and forget his. and get a little respect for yourself.

Answer 6

he's the jealous type, and is sounding like a very angry person. he probably wants you to quit the salsa classes, and do something else. he sounds like a bit of a weirdo to be honest, if he's talking about investigation and stuff. you mightn't want to leave him, but you CAN do better.

Answer 7

You might want to try first, working on your grammar. If you talk anything like you type, that might be 1 problem. He has obviously lost interest in you. Move on.

Answer 8

i will not complain about your grammar..oops..i just did..sorry..neway...he abviously drowned in jealousy..prolly it indicates that your partner in your dance class is far hotter than he is...just forget him..his a complete loser..i doubt it that there can be a possible remedy for your broken relationship..besides he showed you the real him..aren't you pissed of?..honey,people get abused because they let themselves get abused....come on..you got to move on...help your self...forget him...you don't deserve something like him...you will soon meet a better one...cheer up..take care...

Answer 9

just try to sit alone for minutes to think about everything that happened between both of you especially the last meeting or date and you are the only one who can guess his personality and what did he love in you. and what does he dislike in other person and whether what he likes is in you or not because no one can think by his heart as you can feel ,,love is blind..donot forget to think also in what he dislikes and about anything that happened between you both later and he dislikes...and if you find him a true b f still donot call him ,but go to him...................................Dr sherif lanson khalil of Egypt

Answer 10

am sorry to say, that this man really doesn't love you.
maybe this is a way of him telling you that he doesn't want anything to do with you. and it also sounds as he playing with your emotions and you letting him. by you ignoring him, is not phasing him. you should reevaluate yourself.