He's really into pericings and Tatooes and works in a parlour, He is the first person to really make me feel special and says he wants to make me his work of art, My parents are so against anything like that but I feel If I do this for him he will know I really love him, I thinks its a lot easier to get removed now and If I use makeup on it no one will notice when I dont want them to.
2006-07-24 01:00:00 · 48 answers · asked by monica x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-24 01:08:03 · update #1
The only reason to get a tattoo is if you want it. Don't get one
2006-07-24 01:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Neil - the hypocrite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your face and your choice. I really think that if you are special to him, a refusal will not hurt him all that much. And therefore you should make the choice "do I want the tatoo", and not "will I lose him if I don't get the tatoo made". I mean... the face? What if something happens and you fall madly in love with somebody, and you want to put the guy behind? The flower will be like a cattle-mark, that guy claimed you that's that.
If you do want the tatoo yourself, then it's another business. A woman has the right to do with her body (after she has come of age) anything she pleases (except, of course, suicide), and your parents will abide by your decision, if you honestly want it and persuade them so.
If you decide not to, do not make an issue out of it. If anything, ask him to start elsewhere, just so that you know how you feel about a tatoo, and not directly on the face.
2006-07-24 01:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving is unconditional, meaning there is no conditions that the person you love loves you back. However, to know if someone loves you all one needs to look at is the actions of that person. Words are never enough, unless they are backed by actions that match what is being said. Should some one claim they love you then hurt you with their actions then most definetly that would not in my book be considered love.
if he truly loves you he will care about how you feel having a tatoo on your face GAL DONT DO IT you will regret very very much
do it elsewhere where you can hide when you dont want it seen
2006-07-24 01:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! For starters he has no right to ask you to do it, u may split up with him and then where would you be!? Tattoo's are something you should do for yourself beacuse u want it. Any tattoo removal is very painful, basically the layers of skin are burnt away! Also, you may be less employable with a tattoo on your face. If your boyfriend loves you he wont mind if u dont get it done, if he dumps u coz u dont then you're better off without him!
2006-07-24 01:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh no think about it seriously how much makeup you'll need to use to cover it! What about jobs? Are you in a professional business career or are you interested in that style? People are very judgemental and even though it gets removed theres always a scar! You shouldn't do it to please him if he loves you then it doesnt matter if you have tattoos or not and if he works ina parlor then why dosent he make up a temp tattoo for you instead?
2006-07-24 01:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for gods sake grow up. if he told you throw yourself over a cliff would you do that too?
Love is not conditioned on doing something to prove you love them. If anything it sounds like he doesnt love you very much to put you in this position. Do you think he'll be around forever? do you think it'll stop at a rose on your cheek? Hardly id say, yet long after hes gone you'll be left with the tatoo.
Tell him get lost, let him wreck his own body and if he has a problem with that dump him - you'll be better off without him.
2006-07-24 01:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you feel special then he would not put you under pressure to have a tattoo. If he was a professional Tattoo artist then he should know that you should not put pressure on anyone to have a permanent tattoo. Tell him you will try one of the temporary tattoos. Remember that if you have kids then these tattoos look really bad on parents PS. for the record i have tattoos and would never try and force somebody else to have them
2006-07-24 01:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by brandit2001uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear,
Part of being a human being is having free will. If you want this tattoo then by all means get it. But this is your body and you have a say in what happens to it. If you don't want a tattoo then your boyfriend should understand that. If he doesn't understand then maybe he's not really the one for you. But remember this "You are the captain of your body and soul"
2006-07-24 09:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tatoo shouldn't be put on your face. You may hate it later for various reasons and find it hard to cover. He is too controlling and he is going way too far. Ask if you can get it somewhere where only he can see it.
2006-07-24 01:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to look like an idiot for some guy that makes you feel special? i dont think so , no man is worth that. if YOU want to get a tattoo, put it in a place that you wont see and then look back on in 50 years time and regret.
2006-07-24 04:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who should want you to get a tattoo done is you. Not your boyfriend or your girlfriend - you and only you. DO NOT get one done of your face UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES!!! You will regret it for ever, believe me. This guy sounds like a bit of a control freak, if he wants to get peircings and tattooes done on himself then great that's his choice but he SHOULDN'T be telling you what to do. If he really loves you then he should respect you for who you are, not who he wants you to be. Think about this long and hard cos they are PERMANENT and think when you are older will you still want it then. I think in answer to your question NO you SHOULDN'T do it.
2006-07-24 01:16:44 · answer #11 · answered by missieclass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋