I dated this guy 8 years ago. I was deeply in love with him. I broke up with him b/c he was cheating with lot of girls. While dating, I had twins by him, raising them alone. I push him away if his visit were not for his children. His girlfriend (now is his wife) was always making excuses to come to my house alone. For ex: my twins visit them weekly, and she would "accidently" forget something so that she could come to my house to see if he was there, or she has pictures to show of my sons, none which I can have. Six years go by, she's is now getting married, she tells my daughter she is getting marry to my ex and my daughter tells me & I look up and there she is stretching her neck to see me. I pretend I don't see her. My question: Me and my ex has not been together for years. I stay to myself always and mind my own business. Why does she do these things when shes GOT the man, & there is no competition. Shes married to the man. He comes home to her, not me. Dont get it!!!!
2006-07-24 01:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by qweenbee236 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i was divorced for years before i had my last child. my ex actually threw a fit that i was pregnant. people actually wondered if i was pregnant by him because of the fits that he threw.
his wife who is stupidly jealous knew he was cheating but didnt know with who.
he pinned the jealousy thing on me because he constantly compared her to me.
i told her that if i had wanted him, he wouldnt have been with her now. i also told her that i didnt want him anymore, etc.
she still is jealous, but after years, he finally told my daughter that the only reason that he married wife #3 was because she reminded him of me, and that he married her because he had found out that i had remarried. three days after he found out i got married again, he married wife #3. thats the excuse he gave wife #2 also.
in my case, he tried to make his wives believe that i was messing with him to throw them off the track of who he was really messing around on them with.
yours might be the same situation.
2006-07-24 01:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Regardless of everything she knows that you and her husband will always have a connection and she is jealous and insecure of it. She doesn't sound like a very nice person so just ignore it no matter how annoying she is. She probably wont be such a bi#ch when you have yourself another man.
2006-07-24 01:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just jealous... And since she knows he's a damn cheater she might have trust issues to begin with. And men have a tendency of going back to their other ladies. Just keep ignoring the hoe.
2006-07-24 01:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is insecure about the relationship. She must feel that you can take him back anytime or else she wouldn't be playing this little game.
2006-07-24 01:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋