I dating this guy for 3yrs never sleep with him because am saving it for marriage but my sister on the other hand had sex with him, her excuse was if am not giving it up someone has to and that person might as well be her,will you forgive her i got rid of the guy.
2006-07-24 00:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by meme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dump him and since it was your sis i would forgive her,
2006-07-24 00:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes...forgiveness does not mean you are condoning an action...it simply signifies that something has taken place in your life that has challenged your spirit...and forgiveness is an 'Acceptance' of that which took place. It is too late to alter it. It is already done...and you have a choice...you can let it destroy you as a person...or you can move away from it in acceptance. Forgiveness isn't for the other person so much...it is really for you...so that you may go on with your life. It is provided for us as a lesson. I would make every effort to build your own life, to surround yourself with people who help you to feel good about yourself...and not concern myself with my sister's path in life...for in the end...she is the one who must live with her actions...not you...and this knowledge will help you to move forward in forgiveness. It will help you to not get "stuck"...and you must continue your journey in life. I hope this helps you.
2006-07-24 08:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think that is the best thing to do, forgive your sister and get rid of this guy.
2006-07-24 08:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, apparently your sis doesn't think much of herself. Be the bigger person. There are lots of men in the world. How many sisters do you have.( I'm not saying you don't have the right to be mad! Hurray for you for dumping that loser!)
2006-07-24 08:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be VERY hard to forgive! I don't think I could ever get over it if my sister did that to me.
2006-07-24 08:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by blonde mom70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in the long run she will have more of a hard time to forgive her self.
2006-07-24 07:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by what is the good word? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would forgive her but I would never trust her like I once did. She would cause me to feel this way and she can live with it.
2006-07-24 07:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm... simple solution ... just give it up on him...if he can sleep on your sis ...he might be able to sleep with anybody else in the future ... not a very safe person to be with ...
you won't get your warmth and your comfort zone from this kinda person for sure ...
2006-07-24 07:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Vendoras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never, do something to get her a lesson.
2006-07-24 07:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no and no
2006-07-24 07:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by NekoIzMase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋