at first he seem to wanted to be with me now its like he just want sex...........I really love him and dont get why this seem like what he only wants arnt I good enough to date or something?
2006-07-24 01:52:57 · 24 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it seems like he only wants to have sex with you, than he probably does.
Believe it or not, this guy is making it very easy for you. There's no hidden secret agenda here. He's being very obvious. But don't worry, you're God's gift. Get a new man cause you're worth it.
2006-07-24 01:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by LaCosaMasBella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have just learned the dangers of bring sex into a relationship before you get to know each other.
First of all men want sex. Second they want a relationship. Not always the case but when sex is involved it is pretty much the case.
No doubt if you are good enough to go to bed with you are very good to date but once sex enters the picture you can almost always get this feeling.
Women make a big mistake when they are young in mixing love and sex. They think they are one and the same. While love enhances sex, sex is not love. Always remember and never forget a man can have sex with almost anyone who will hold still but not love her. He falls in love with her personality not her body.
Sit him down and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't agree with you or does and then wants you to go to bed I would give him some distance. If he doesn't find your company as great as always you have your answer.
2006-07-24 02:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about. I was in a relationship like this one a few months ago. There is nothing wrong with you. He IS only interested in sex. That's becasue he's not responsible. He's not ready for commitment. He has no respect for women. The bottom line is he is abusive. To be abusive doesn't necessarily mean hit you or harm you physically. He is using you for his physical pleasure and has no true interest in the real you. Leave him. You are too good for him.
2006-07-24 01:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most mistake a lady does is have sex to soon in a relative ship you need to get to know a man before you start that!!! Men, will use u if u let them!! Move on and learn by your mistakes. And, yes u r good enough but not with him u r better than him!!!!
2006-07-24 02:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly because he is using you for sex if you think that and thats ur gut feeling then its probaly right and thats how most guys are.Alot of times when you dont make them wait and u give them sex right off the bat they turn into jerks.Like the old saying goes why buy the cow when u get the milk for free.I would move on and find someone that will love you for other things then just sex
2006-07-24 01:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most guys first and foremost all they want is sex. in the beginning he put in all that effort to be with you so he could get the sex. now he has done that so he is just going to want the sex. and of course you are good enough to date!! this guy just isnt that into to want to. if he was, he would want to spend every waking moment with you and let you kno he wants to.
2006-07-24 01:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you call yourself "STEPFANNY" goes to show just how lose you really are. now tell me, with a name like that are you not inviting men to come and taste your now over used fanny. have some respect because from where i am standing you seem to be giving it to him like there is no tommorrow, you dont charge or anything at least prostitutes do, maybe you should try get some cash and but yourself a man.
2006-07-24 02:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by rascal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural to get turn this side , if you are not mature enough , pl do keep meeting him only in to the public places , do not agree to go alone in the isolated areas , make nice gentle excuse to avoide aloof places for meeting , till you think you are not able to handle situation after wards , very critical for the girls , boys are boys , pl be cautious .
2006-07-24 01:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are like that. Lose him and find someone that can wait on sex, there is much more to life then sex and unforchitly very few men know that but at least I know it.
2006-07-24 01:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lonly Death 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are good enough to date we all are some people guys and girls only think of one thing he is one just cut him off from sex this might hurt but if he truly loves you he will stay if not he will leave.
2006-07-24 02:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋