I am still a virgin! This guy and I were talking last night and he said that he wanted to have sex with me because I am speical to him and he wants me to loose it to him! He told me that he was going to comeover today! I dont want to have sex with him! I want to have sex with this other guy! How do I tell him that I want to have sex with another guy? That I dont want to loose it to him? Do I just come out forward and say the damn thing our what? I am so confused? What should I do! Can someone plz help me plz!
2006-07-24 01:46:32 · 22 answers · asked by Courtney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont tell him u want to loose it to another guy tell him u changed ur mind and pls be careful cos d other guy might just b d wrong person. this world is a small place and u'll be suprised to know that the two guys know and are probably playing a game with u
2006-07-24 01:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by moment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that your still a Virgin. Depending on your age, if your still a teenager, you should stay one. If your an adult then you should have sex when your ready and with the right guy. You will know when he is the right guy and when the right time is. I was a Virgin till I was 20 years old and I was in situations where I had the chance to but didn't. I wanted to wait till I found the right guy and a guy you loved me and were still together after 2 years. As for the guy the you don't want to have sex with just tell him you don't want to have sex with him. If you want sex with another guy then you shouldn't be with the guy. It's not right to lead that guy on. You have a tough decision to make and I hoped I helped a bit
2006-07-24 01:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that unless you are in love with the other guy, you should not have sex even with him. I think that you should loose your virginity with THE ONE YOU LOVE!
It's smth precious,even though people now a days don't really care about it!
So, if you are in love with this other guy, OK, then go for it. Well, regarding this guy (I didn't get it, is he ur bf or not?), don't tell him that you don't want to have sex with him but with smb else. That would make him feel bad. Tell him that you are not ready and that you don't feel like talking about it for the time being.
Try to avoid this conversation for a while in the days to come.
Later on, things will sort themselves out.
Good luck and be careful!
Take care.
2006-07-24 02:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES....you tell him how you feel. He is putting his needs before your needs and you shouldn't give your body to anyone who justs asks for it. You might want to rethink "losing it" to the other guy too. I sounds like you're way to young for sex at this moment in time. Just tell him: Look, I'm not ready for this so don't try to force me to do something we will both regret. Then tell him to go home. How can you be confused about defending yourself against a sexual predator? Speak up loud and clear! If he insists, call 911 and tell them you have a guy there trying to rape you.
2006-07-24 01:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP! STOP! STOP! If you are dating this guy, then break up with him. Don't tell him you want sex with someone else. Either that or just don't have sex. Loosing your virginity is an important part of your life. Do you want it to be special or do you want it just to be "something fun you did"? Just be careful, dear.
2006-07-24 01:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by cajunmommy29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to say no. Don't ever do things that you don't want to do because you can't say no. Don't worry about other people's feelings. You've got to think about yourself.
The Bible says to wait until you get married to have sex. God's plan never fails. And it is a lot less painful than the world's way.
2006-07-24 01:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by LaCosaMasBella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you stating ya businees to a guy like that, now he wants to have sex with you. You tell that ****** NO. Because when a guy says it like that(you special), he just wants ya cookie because he know you haven't been anywhere. Now tell him you want to give it up to a guy that you want to be with, and tell him its not him, if he comes on to you, MAKE SURE you put on that ****A IF YOU DONT BACK THE FU** UP I'LL MERK YOU look so he will get the picture that you are seriuos and he cant just take advantage of you. and tell him ***** I DONT WANT YOU SO BACK THE FU** WIT YA BROKE DOWN PENIS. good luck!!!
2006-07-24 01:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by MzBadHabit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you going to pop it in anyway so whats the point. if you didnt give this guy the impression that you wanted him he would not be asking you to have sex. try changing the way you come across because at the moment you look cheap.
2006-07-24 01:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by rascal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well believe me just tell him no and he sais ur special yea special too **** he whant u to loose it too him becaue guys love that its like a prize for him belive me and dont tell him aboutt the other guy becasue then he will think u are a hoe so just tell him u aint redy and dont be there wen he goes or act like u arent there
2006-07-24 02:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by maria_e126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your saving yourself for marriage that will put him off. Or just say no thats always a good one,. Try making yourself scarce an not be home when he comes over. If your not there then he cant try anything.
2006-07-24 01:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by ella s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋