my mom and step dad are gettin divorced and me and my boyfriend just moved in w/ them my mom wants us to either move out or help her pay all her bills im plannin on movin out cuz i cant afford them im only 17..so now i dont know if i should move in with my dad or my b'f back in indiana ..i want to go to dads so i can be stable but my b'f will get mad but i think he should go to college at the university that he wants which is in indiana..he wants me to go with him if he cant come to my dads wich i know he cant im so confused i dont know what i should do ?!
2006-07-24 02:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by kmspoiledbrat78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my b'f says the only way hes goin back to indiana alone is it i break up with him.. ..i know im right and i should let him go he just makes it so hard to say good-by... its like then he turns it all around on me like now he just wasted 6-7 months of his life.. so i dk how to go about breaking up with him but i do agree he needs to go to school and stop chasin me around..
2006-07-24 03:02:55 · update #1
Honey you are 17 and have alot of life ahead of you . Tell your boyfriend you love him and bc you love him you are moving back to your dad's and telling him to move on to college. School is to imporant nowwa days for a good job to let him ruin it by trying to chase after you. He may be mad at you at first for being reasonable but he will get over it when he see's you where right. where as if you keep him from getting a education and a good job then eventually he will start to hold a grudge against you and when you have 4 kids and a broken down trailer he will leave you for the big boobed bimbo down the road. so be smart send him off to school and give him time to realize you where right and he will thank you for it later on
2006-07-24 02:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself first. Sounds selfish, but you are only 17! You have to think about the rest of your life. Thinking stability is the smart thing, so if moving in with your Dad is the best, then do it. If your boyfriend is going to get mad, then he needs to realize that you have to think about what's best for YOU before anything else. May sound bad, but you are still a minor right now. I say move to your Dad's, tell your boyfriend to go to college where ever it is he is wanting to go. No one says you have to break up. Just finish out your time in high school and go from there...good luck!
2006-07-24 09:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well remember you are 17 so you can always go back with one of your parents if things don't work out. I would sugguest giving it a try with your boyfriend. You can both share expensives while going to school or working. It not really nice of your mom to make you pay all the bills tho, maybe if you live with her a split share like half or something.
2006-07-24 09:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dannyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 17, move back with your dad. Tell your boyfriend you need to be close to your mom for a while to help her through this divorce. When you get older if he still wants you to, then move in with him.
2006-07-24 09:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have given this situation alot of thought and I agree with what you should do...move to your Dads, allow bf to focus on college and this will allow you to be your own person without as much confusion to plan a future without so much outside influence...good luck.
2006-07-24 09:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lf you can't pay bills living with your mom l don't think moving in with your b/f is a good idea, so dad's place is a better option, put yourself first if your b/f doesn't understand you are still young you'll meet someone, the choice is yours to make, just make sure its right for you.
2006-07-24 09:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your dad's. Your boyfriend needs to make decisions for him self. He doesn't need you to go with him, to still date him.
2006-07-24 09:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give urself a break. breath deep and go towards what ur mind tells u not ur heart!
good luck!
2006-07-24 09:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO BE WITH YOUR OWN FAMILY AN GO TO COLLEGE AN START YOUR LIFE OFF RIGHT IF HE CARES FOR YOU HE WILL FOLLOW YOU ANYWHERE!!!
2006-07-24 09:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Phyllis W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don,t you think it would be easier to help her for a bit?, than pay all of them yourself?...Guess its your call....good - luck
2006-07-24 09:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋