2006-07-24 03:52:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-07-24 03:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by itsinthepalmofmyhand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to do what u want because in your mind u "think" u know what ur doing, and that your grown and can handle the world, but im going to tell u from my own personal expirence, please wait.. if this is the guy for u , then waiting a few years to be sure isnt going to matter much.. i married when i was 18, he was 19.. we were high school sweet hearts.. we thought we had what it took to be married forever.. i was about to go to college, and he told me to just wait, lets get married, i could go to college later.. and i was so stupid and blinded by my love for him that i did what he said.. i got pregnant a month after we got married, by age 23, we had two children i still had zero college, and he left me for another woman claiming we were to young when we got married that he wanted to date more girls and party .. So there i was with 2 kids no real education, he hardly ever see's the kids, (his choice) and he only pays child support when he feels like it.. cause he knows i cant afford to take him to court every time he stops..ive had to work as a waitress barely making it by most of the time.. Trust me u will change and he will change alot in the next 7 years.. the decision u make right now, could affect children u have with him in a couple years or so, and u could end up like me.. Did i have what it took at 18 to be married to him for the rest of my life? Yes, because i was raised to live by my vows.. but u just dont know for sure if your spouse is that way, u cant read his mind, all u can do is believe in words he says today that may not be true a few years from now.. Go to school, get an education, to where u can have a decent job, that way if your spouse leaves u, u can atleast afford to support your kids and not have to struggle so hard.. Please most marriages dont last when u get married that young.. its a fact, not an oppinion... i hope u make the right choice..
2006-07-24 04:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way you are going to miss the good years..i was going to get married at 19 but i waited til i was 23 because i wanted to have fun when i turned 21 and not have anyone stop me.. i always told my now husband we been together since i was 18 and i said when i turn 21 you will not see me for 2 weeks and do not even ask what i have done or going to do.. can't accept that them leave now.. i left for 2 weeks went on a binge.. never cheated or anything like that.. but i was messed up for them 2 weeks.. to this day he does not worry about what i have done.
no husband or wife in there right state of mind is going to let there husband or wife go out for 2 weeks and not want to know nothing about it.. so wait til you are at least 21 22 that way you can have some fun before being tied down.
2006-07-24 03:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT! At 18 years old, you still have a lot to learn and to see in this world, a tone of experience to gain before you start your own family. Later on you will be sorry for not going on to college, travelling or making a career for yourself. Frustration leads to conflict inside a couple because if you're not happy with yourself, you won't be happy having to live with another person who is probably just as inexperienced as you are.
The decision is yours, but I think you should think long and hard about it because it's a life long decision. You may not want to be an extra number in a divorced couples poll.
2006-07-24 04:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i would wait until you have done what you want and lived a fun teen life and most of your 20's. if you marry at 18 you will regret it i was 21 when i married and i think that was wrong because there is alot to do!
2006-07-24 03:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by booneboone38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
Marry at 26
2006-07-24 05:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u need to experience life more and find out what u want out of life. i got married when i was young huge mistake people change and especially since you are 18 u will go through a lot of changes.
2006-07-24 12:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you feel you are ready and you think you have found the right person for you. i married at 21 and i am so happy 7 years later.
2006-07-24 04:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by Exotic Pink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what u want..but u only have one life to live...so make the most out of it and enjoy what u like to do most that u know you cant do when u are married and if u have kids/
2006-07-24 04:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, have a long engagement first to see what happens.
2006-07-24 04:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
2006-07-24 03:58:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋