My bf and I have been together for more than a year and I trust him an he trusts me. He has grauated from school and before me he had alot of girl trying to talk to him and he still does. I trust himbut I dont like these (I'm sorry) bytches all on my man. the other day I wasn't there but He told me about it. This girl that likes him from since way back came up to him saying, "Hey baby" and tell her friend that he (my bf) was her baby forever... Now I'ma black woman wit a black person's attitude. If I was there you aready know stuff would've poped off. But I wasn't. She alwayz pop up when I not there. It's like this with a alot of girls. Should I look for the girl to handle it my self or wait to see her, or ignore it??HElp
2006-07-24 03:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront this ***** and tell her hes your man and to back the hell off. damn girls always up to no good trying to steal our men away....let her know hes with you for an obvious reason and she needs to fu>ckin accept it and move on
2006-07-24 03:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very good points. You trust him and he trusts you. He made sure to tell you that she was still trying to get him.
It sounds like she's set on 'stealing' your guy. Luckily your guy isn't having any.
Sit down with him and find out exactly what she's been up to. Guys are pretty oblivious to stuff like that sometimes. I know I was shocked when My wife told me that women almost always had an ulterior motive when they asked a guy out alone.
Make sure she doesn't get him alone, women have been known to deliberately get a guy drunk to take advantage of him, the same as guys do to women sometimes.
If she keeps it up, then (and I hate to say this) you might want to pull her aside and quietly beat the crap out of her. AFTER you talk it over with your guy. Doing something like that without telling him might just make him really really mad.
You'll definitely want to make it clear that you aren't upset with him and that you trust him, that its the girl thats really on your nerves. That way he saves face and you haven't stepped on his ego.
2006-07-24 03:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl ignore it. If you trust your man....take that skeezer's comments as compliments. You HAVE what she can only DREAM about. When haterz pop up like that you know you're doing something right! Ignore that gurl and be happy with your man!!! Fighting her just makes you look petty....brush her off your shoulders mama....don't waste the time or energy!
2006-07-24 03:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by JusME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there are not many Black human beings in New Zealand....properly no longer down south besides. i have seen my mum get indignant though, many cases and believe me she's a million cases WORSE!!! it is humorous even as i imagine decrease back to it though lol =)
2016-10-15 03:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after the B*tch. I wouldn't put up with some chick up on my man like that. And I would go after my man too for letting it happen. It doesn't matter if you trust him. How would he like it if you let a bunch of guys do to you what girls do to him. If you have to give him a dose of his own medicine and see how he feels after wards. Good Luck( don't wait to see her go get her!!)
2006-07-24 03:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by jess_brenda_04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore it. If your boyfriend is going to cheat you, chasing after these women won't help you. Tease a few boys so that you have someone to fall back on if your boyfriend cheats.
2006-07-24 03:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Monica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a mixed black woman from da hood...i would confront the both of them n ask them whats up with this?if i dont get the right answer i would beat the brakes off the both of them.but then again u might not be like us gangstas girls.....
2006-07-24 04:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by purrdykitten2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let your man handle that.if you are around and the girls pop up,thats the real set for u and ur man to let them know his mind.kul it and dont loose it yet.your man has proved himself to you and doesnt even keep things away from you when you are not around.thumps up for him!
2006-07-24 03:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by onel2k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it baby - you got the man!! She only has the talk - bet she's cold in bed at night!
2006-07-24 03:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man needs to handle it his self. You know he likes the attention. If he was with her before, then he obviously likes her. If he can't stay away from this HO, then you need to drop his sorry butt.
2006-07-24 03:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by David B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋