Family & Relationships - 20 July 2006

When you read what girls want in a guy you realise it's because their father and grandfathers treat them like little angels when they are tiny. Girls grow up wanting a man who will carry on pampering them and giving in to them. And they say blokes are immature.

2006-07-20 08:49:59 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you are at your mate's house and find yourself secretly checking his divorced mom. One night while you're waiting for your friend her house- she makes a move on you? Would you accept? Would you tell your friend? What if you really really find her such a turn on?

2006-07-20 08:49:21 · 13 answers · asked by omoatayo 2 in Singles & Dating

She allows me to do everythin, but she is mostly passive.She doesnt do anythin else than just kissing sometimes. How can i tell that she shud b active while having romance? Any ideas?

2006-07-20 08:49:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 08:48:40 · 15 answers · asked by sleepy j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 23 year-old decent looking guy. I play in a band, have a secure job that is career, i go to college at night so i can become a teacher. I pay all my bills, i support myself and still have enoughs pending cash to have a good time, and i'm just a fun loving guy. I have been with my g/f for well over 2 years now, she is going to school, finally, she has a job that she works 2 days out of the week and wont get a real job, i pay for everything that we do, she has no drive to succeed in life. Yet, i love her more than anything in the world and don't want leave her in the least, she treats me great i just wish she was more motivated and had a more go get em attiutude. Granted she's 21, but am i wrong? My question is, do you defnie this as love? What do you think of this? and how can you tell a girlfriend that you want her to get a real job? Thanks!

2006-07-20 08:46:41 · 16 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Singles & Dating

i offered her to go for Pizza , but she said, her lil girl likes mcdonalds , what should i do?

2006-07-20 08:45:59 · 49 answers · asked by LikesYoungPxssySmellingPanties 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

last night, i turned my wife down for some 2 am fun. i had been sleeping and she had been awake. i slept for about 3 hours. i was just tired and not in the mood. we just had a baby and she feels inadequate. I feel bad now, and i want her to feel as secure about herself as possible. I feel horrible about it, but should i feel this way every time im not in the mood, i mean its not that often that i turn her down, i try to have fun just about every night that we are together alone without kids running around and she is home from work (she works 7-7 fri sat and sun)? I understand her feeling rejected now that she brought it to my attention, and i know that 20-30 minutes of my time could have solved this problem. I feel bad, and all and i want to be the same person i was when we were dating a few years ago. when we were dating we would have sex 1-3 times a day. I want to please all of her sexual needs, but times have changed what should i do?

2006-07-20 08:45:26 · 25 answers · asked by daniel e 3 in Family

2006-07-20 08:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by tony_shand2003 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 26 years old. i always catch him in the middle of the nite watching porn on dvd's, on the computer, or looking at his dirty magazines. and then he does his business with himself and comes back to bed. will this ever stop? is this a phase with men in their twenties. it makes me feel that i'm not pleasing him enough or in the right way? should i worry? should i break up with him over it? how can i make it stop bothering me?

2006-07-20 08:44:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im going to see a movie with my best friend and her boyfriend. she told me to invite someone, so im inviting this guy i like a lot. im hoping maybe the relationship will move a little faster by doing so. will this be akward inviting him in front of my friend and her boyfriend? im very nervous and i have no clue what to wear, i want everything to go smoothly you know?

2006-07-20 08:44:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The police believes women 99% of the time when it comes to who hit who.

2006-07-20 08:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by googlebball 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 08:43:52 · 29 answers · asked by Adel 1 in Family

I have recently realized that my husband has been verbally and emotionally abusing me for years and I am making plans to take the kids and get out, but it's taking longer than I want to go through the legalities, etc. and I can't tell him what's going on, obviously. He wants to talk tonight about how we feel things are going in the relationship and I don't want to. I don't know how to hide what I am feeling and doing. Don't know what to say to him. Do I pretend I am feeling that everything is fine?? Help!

2006-07-20 08:43:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the part of u that only comes out when u are by yourself or when u get push 2 far tell me what happens when that part of u comes out 10pts for the most honest answer

2006-07-20 08:43:31 · 9 answers · asked by activision 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband confessed to me that he had slept with another woman about 2 weeks ago when he was away on a business trip.

2006-07-20 08:43:25 · 22 answers · asked by mamiprincessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i would just talk to her on the phone and sometimes ill ask to see her but shell always had an exquse for me, i also askt here what was rong what did i do for here to leave me she said that i did do anything that she just didnt truest me.i havent seen her in like 7 months.when i seen her on that weeken i felt like if the hole world had just fallen on top of me,i realy love this girl i dont no what to do with my self any more..

2006-07-20 08:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by chirios_21 1 in Family

2006-07-20 08:41:57 · 52 answers · asked by freeatlastboone 3 in Singles & Dating

When you have a supportive wife or a supportive husband or teacher or friend. Why do they make you feel "supported"? What is it that they do or say?

2006-07-20 08:40:49 · 19 answers · asked by A O 1 in Family

2006-07-20 08:40:29 · 13 answers · asked by Puppylove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he wants to take a break because he doesn't think i really love him. He thinks that i'm just obsessed with him and "love" him because he took my virginity. [even though i guess that does have a big effect on girls]...he says he's through with dating after me and he wants me to go out and see other people so that i will be less obsessive and perhaps be a little more mature...[I'm 19 and he's 26...he's my first boyfriend]

but i'd feel guilty dating someone else...i can't even bare to think of having sex with anyone else...but that probably just my "virginity" talking...how do i get over my Bf? and what if i don't want to!? : (


need help :(

thanks :)

2006-07-20 08:40:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've heard from some people saying ur suppose to wear your engagement ring on your right and your wedding band on the left? where are you suppose to wear it?

2006-07-20 08:40:07 · 15 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Weddings

2006-07-20 08:40:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not into the whole wedding fiasco scene. Looking to see if the Vegas wedding is a good choice.

2006-07-20 08:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by ceciliaarriaga 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When you think of loving someone who do you think of, how does that person make you feel and most important what would your life be like without them.... If your not with someone what type of person would you be likely to fall in love with?

2006-07-20 08:39:19 · 206 answers · asked by Matthew C 3 in Singles & Dating

"You're different from other guys"

What exactly does this mean? I've only dated a little but every girl seems to say this.

I've even asked a few of them what makes me different. None of them gave me a straight answer.
I even joked with one saying "What, is one of my eyes bigger than the other?" - She laughed.

Is it your way of showing interest in a guy?

2006-07-20 08:38:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there is a guy that i LOVE hanging out with. We have a great time, but i am not physically attracted to him (and yes i know that it is kinda shallow)... B/c there have been not advancements made, i see no problem with still hanging out with him... However, my brother thinks he really likes me, and thinks it is wrong for me to not 'clarify' where i am with him... QUESTION... is there any way that i can let him know that i'm not interested in 'dating', but want to continue to hang out? i don't want to make myself look like an a** but i don't want to hurt his feelings either, b/c he is a very nice guy!?!

2006-07-20 08:38:15 · 17 answers · asked by tinkerbell02127 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year and have been dating for two. His son is getting married in November, and because he and his fiance do not agree with the relationship that his father (my boyfriend/future fiance--we are planning to get engaged soon) and I share, his son told him I am not allowed to come. They disagree on our relationship because of our age difference. However, this is incredibly hurtful to us both, and the closer the wedding gets the more offended I become; I feel that if their father is helping to support their wedding and is celebrating their relationship on their wedding day, they should have the courtesy to at least respect ours, whether they agree/accept it or not. What to do? Any advice is appreciated.

2006-07-20 08:38:13 · 17 answers · asked by Bridget 2 in Weddings

I mean I'll be the first to admit I got Penis envy too-but I Love to be Loved and all I get is laughed at-Hey You think it's easy being so damn handsome and then not getting another date! I have other techniques ya know-I can do things the lil ol in & out just don't match up to-and think about what beautiful children you will have with a guy like me-and your sons never have to worry about getting it caught in their zipper either (OW)-but now most the girls my age have gone on to bigger and BITTER things-it's not like I'm giving them less than a mouthful-and I can do better and give ya one heck of a tounge lashing too-so what if I'm a GREAT Kisser-so what if I use my handsome face to massage your back-(it really does fit the grooves too)-as long as I don't ad up-even if I can go for a while-and many times again-it all comes down to six inches-and thats not talking about half a foot in your mouth either-{this message was all done in fun and no one should take out of context the humor!}?

2006-07-20 08:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They embarass me constantly.

2006-07-20 08:37:31 · 17 answers · asked by Big Dick Black 1 in Family

Is it some kind of a norm? or Is it because women do not have better sense of humour or they just take things too seriously in life?

Am a lil goofy and people think its strange for a girl to be like that ;).

2006-07-20 08:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by Someday 3 in Marriage & Divorce