When you read what girls want in a guy you realise it's because their father and grandfathers treat them like little angels when they are tiny. Girls grow up wanting a man who will carry on pampering them and giving in to them. And they say blokes are immature.
2006-07-20 08:49:59 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bloody hell! I'm not coming out from behind this sofa 'till you've all gone.
2006-07-20 10:50:35 · update #1
damn right
2006-07-20 08:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all women are like that. I for one am not!!! I didnt have a father growing up. But I am the type that likes to give and recieve. You know giving respect to recieve respect. It shouldnt be about what you get in the relationship its about the love and lessons you learn. And not all women are raised as princesses and were pampered. They were simply loved. Once you have a child or two you may understand.
2006-07-20 08:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by tashasnyder2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off you need to correct yourself I am a female and I dont want some man pampering me through my life. I want to accomplish everything on my own and by myself. I realize that if I do this I will feel more complete with my life. I work hard to get the things that I want and I do get them without any help from a man. I was also raised by my father and he always told me not to depend on any man b/c this would bring my self-esteem down.
2006-07-20 08:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lucid_dreams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, but the same can be said about little boys wanting
to be taken care of by their mothers.
Indeed, the idea that not communicating - suddenly becoming
sullen and hoping that the other person fixes the problem
is remarkably like the "Kiss it and make it better" of childhood
years.
Parents are role models - you are better off if they are good
role models, regardless.
Personally, I think the absolute best thing you can hope
for is that your parents (and grandparents) are not only
good role models in themselves, but also in how they
treat each other.
That will shape what you expect in a relationship.
2006-07-20 08:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree--girls are taught from a very young age that their knight in shining armor will ride them off into the sunset when they turn 18!
But I think that a mature, fun woman knows that isn't real life. Personally, I just look for a relationship that involves a lot of mutual respect. If it's good enough for him, than it's good enough for me and vice versa. I want a guy who is going to treat me right, but I know that I owe him the very same right back.
2006-07-20 08:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by just4funyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Inexperienced!
Not all women have had the best treatment from thier parental figures. Your question is bordering absurd! I understand what you are getting at.. and perhaps it's just different in different countries. In America.. very few girls are spoiled with thoughts of being taken care of.. we just can't afford to allow a man to have that much power over us and depend that much on someone other than ourselves... maybe you need to come to the USA and meet some real women!
2006-07-20 08:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Angelisa Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't we be treated like the women we are after all we are the bearers of life and the spine that keep men standing upright! So, I think I deserve the pampering if you feel you would like to show me how much you appreciate me but if you're referring to a user that's a different story!
2006-07-20 08:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you're really trying to get at. My dad never treated me like that, per se, growing up. And I certainly don't want a man to spoil me like that. I had one and it made me feel weird. I just like the down-to-earth guys.
And there are some pretty immature guys out there, sorry to say. You'll have it on both sides.
2006-07-20 08:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you grow up and become an adult you will realise why women are so special.
Not only can we multi-task that's cooking your dinner, watching the kids and having a phone conversation, whilst you pick your ear/nose trying to figure out the instructions for our rabbits, only then will you know the true worth of a woman.
Good luck for the future....;o)
2006-07-20 09:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah every feminest is going for there guns... run
Its because people pamper them...
and those damn Disney Movies where everything is PERFECT and everyone lived "Happily Ever After" with no problems
Girls think there is a Prince Charming...
and there might be... but he aint lookin for a girl that only wants prince charming...
I aint sayin shes a gold digger...
but she aint goin with a broke a-s *****
2006-07-20 08:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by red_samurai_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is why do you think all women are raised like that by their fathers or grandfathers? Not every woman wants that, but trust me it is nice to be able to feel like you have some control over something in your life. Not to say you have control over the guy, but over certain situations. A lot of women want this because it makes them feel good, or like you assumption some women have grown accustomed to it. I hope this helps.
2006-07-20 08:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋