Family & Relationships - 16 July 2006

You've gotten to know somebody online then you go to finally meet them in person?

Now what?

2006-07-16 08:16:06 · 12 answers · asked by tasialen1973 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-16 08:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by emmy d 2 in Friends

I have tried to explain to them that I love my GF and I want to spend my free time with her as much as possible and mostly my mother doesn't get that.
I am 29yrs old and they still hound me like I am a little boy. I am their only son also. Unfornately, I also still live at home so this could be another reason why they feel dejected and this is also my first real GF in a long time and I decided when I meet this girl to try and actually get to know her and I have and we have just clicked and I really do love her but I can't understand why my parents won't get it into their heads that I need my own life too apart from them.
Am I doing something wrong by hanging out with my GF during my free days which are only on the weekends? Plus me and my GF don't see each other for the whole week because she lives an hr away & we both work so I want to see her more when we are apart. My GF feels the same way about seeing me but I don't discuss this with my GF because I don't want her to feel bad.

2006-07-16 08:14:35 · 22 answers · asked by fguz77 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend, my maid of honor, is being so friggin' nasty to me lately. She has 'accidently' got the times wrong when we were supposed to meet up to go look for dresses for my bridesmaids, she is very inconsiderate like that all the time. She refused to go Bridal Dress shopping with me, and I wound up doing it alone, which really hurt me, made me cry.

I rent an apartment from her mom. She lives at home with her mom as well. Doesn't pay rent, I alone put more into that household then she does and my fiancee pays an equal share as me. Today my son had a friend over and we all went down to use the pool because I have been told that it is open for mine, my sons and my fiancee's use. If it was more then a couple of kids I would have asked, but it was just the 2 kids. I get down there and my best friend and a bunch of her friends are hanging out by the pool drinking beer, and I don't think anything of it, this is what adults do.....

2006-07-16 08:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Friends

well i am 18 about to be 19 and my girlfriend is 18 with one year left of highschool ... we have been talking about marriage after she is done with school, is this wise? i am in the army i deployed to iraq once already i have a great career so i know i can do well for a family

2006-07-16 08:13:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-16 08:12:36 · 13 answers · asked by runningwild81 1 in Weddings

in a marriage,do you think it should be 50/50 or do you women leave the important issues up to your husband,like paying bills,attending to the car,and shopping for groceries,stuff like that.not being nosy,just asking.and who takes care of the kids.

2006-07-16 08:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-16 08:11:56 · 12 answers · asked by bonifiederistaman 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I both work but we are off weekends, Every Friday after work his Mother calls and wants us to drop our plans to entertain her, if we say no she continues to call all night Friday through Sunday leaving messages on our machine and sometimes screaming for us to answer the phone, she then tries calling around looking for us. My husband won't tell her to stop this behavior and if I complain then we end up arguing. She always tries to plan our weekends and if she doesn't get her way she complains that she is ill and needs him to run errands for her. Either way she ends up getting him over her house and although I do love her I am starting to resent her for her rude behavior and I resent my husband because he will not talk to her about it. He says she will just yell at him. What can I do?

2006-07-16 08:10:22 · 16 answers · asked by faithsheart44 1 in Family

2006-07-16 08:08:47 · 26 answers · asked by mada * 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-16 08:08:29 · 7 answers · asked by luv_bites69 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-16 08:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by Justin M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and i went out to a bar he likes to get attshon frome girls whin i saw him do this he gets mad and lives me thear .he then gos to anther bar and i go home. the next day he tels me to come pick him up at10am .he then tells me liyes and i make him fill gulty and then he tells me the thurth .he stayed untill closeing at the bar. and had plans to leave with a frend and her frend to go to party at her house .he got in her car and it had to many people and she tells him i will drope them off and come back for you.so he waits but no show.he said her frend and him was going to get togather and have sex. he says he was mad at me becous i told him to stop looking at outher girls is the reason he left and he was going to go to have a good time. i asked if he loved me and he tells me hes not in love with me anymoor but he loves me?

2006-07-16 08:08:12 · 21 answers · asked by candy t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend was just caught cheating on me. He had her in my car!!! why cheat if you have no intention on leaving, and come begging and crying to come back this will be his second time we have a family together do i take a chance or weather the heartache and move on?

2006-07-16 08:07:32 · 5 answers · asked by pamic113 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont want to live anymore. Im not happy with anything. I have financial problems. Im $14,000 in debt. I have a job and working the hardest i can but still i cant pay all of my bills. Im in love with my boyfriend but he lies to me. I try and trust him but i cant take the fighting anymore. its killing me. we are doing the long distance thing and i know he wouldnt cheat on me. but the last 2 months have been hard. I dont have enough money to go to school in the fall and parents cant help me. My two best friends hardly talk to me and are too busy with there own lives. I ran out of my depression medicine and my dr. is an hour & half away & i dont have enough money to go there. they wont give me more until i see him. i cry all the time and no one understands me. I think killing myself is the only option i have. i have no one.

2006-07-16 08:07:23 · 16 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

last night i called him he said he was at a wedding wich i had no idea about it sounded like he was at a club so today im really mad at him i told him im not at home im busy i would call when i got there where should i tell him im at and what should i say im doing>????

2006-07-16 08:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by lifeis4eva_420 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel as though no guy is interested in me. Maybe cause im too nice? But would anyone out there also care?

2006-07-16 08:06:07 · 12 answers · asked by princess sorrow 2 in Friends

my ex-wife is taking me back to court once again. she already has every thing including the kids. she lives in colorado and i live in texas. i tryed getting a continuance for the court date because i don't start work until aug7th and i needed some time to make some money to get a lawyer and fly to colorado for the court date.
well i got the continuance the court date is now 2 days after i start my new job which is out of the country. so i'm now worse off than i was before. it has been granted that i can attend court over the phone which helps. but how can i defend my self with out a lawyer?the ex-wife has a lawyer. i have called every lawyer i could find in colorado no one will talk to me with out paying them. and i dont have the money yet.. i tryed to offer to send my contract of employment to one lawyer for proof. and then offered to sign a contract with them for payment as soon as i started work. he wouldn't go for it. is there any thing else i can do or any where else to turn?

2006-07-16 08:05:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 16 (almost 17) and I have been dating a guy for about 3 months but the thing is I haven't even meet him! It sounds wierd but I'm in love with him, but since I haven't met him! Am I crazy to think I'm in love with him??

2006-07-16 08:04:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No need to expand.

2006-07-16 08:04:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-16 08:04:12 · 7 answers · asked by judyju2004 1 in Singles & Dating

I've know this guy for little lesas than a year now and we're doing the same summer theatre show. We also did the same spring one. So he's been flirty and I like him a bit, I just want to know what he's like with no one else around, you know. I am 17 and can't drive, but he is 18 and can. Our rehersals are ending this week. Last one is Thursday and then we have the shows. So, what is a good way to ask him out? Rehersal ends at 9 and I'm not sure he'd be up for something after...but any suggestion is welcome. I'm unsure how to go about this. HELP PLEASE!

2006-07-16 08:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, what if I said I gotta date coming over 2nite and my house is a mess...turn off?
If so...I'd better get to frickin' work...
please no retarded answers...Thank You!

2006-07-16 08:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright I'm 18 and she's 18 also. We've been together for 3 1/2 years and we've had the rises and the falls. Her mom hates me because of her over exaggerating our arguements to her so we've been dating behind her back for a year and a half maybe. I love her so much and she's the only girl I picture myself with, but I can get other women and I know this, I'm a very confident guy. Well lately she's been hanging around new girls and they've been partying alot lately. We finally broke up about 2 months ago. She got a prom date with another boy and they kissed at prom. Then a week later she told me she missed me then came back and we kinda screwed. We were sorta together and wanted to be together but a couple days later she decides to get mad at me over nothing then leave me again. A few days after that she stops by so we can talk then kisses me and same thing happens and she keeps leaving then coming back. Now there is some Andy guy that she likes and I dont know what to do? Please help!

2006-07-16 08:02:27 · 14 answers · asked by linda l 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my girl friend cheated on her then boy friend. He knew about it but forgave her. They got married shortly after. But he doesn't know how to trust her again. Any suggestions?

2006-07-16 08:02:22 · 10 answers · asked by leapofff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-16 08:02:14 · 12 answers · asked by eandsuk 2 in Singles & Dating

looks are EVERYTHING to girls just as much as they are to guys. Take me, For example, when I gain about 20 pounds, no girl wants anything to do with me. You can even see it in their nasty faces that anything they say to me is strictly for business and nothing else. As soon as I get back into shape, however, it's a TOTALLY different ballgame. All of a sudden I get smiles from everywhere, and girls are always asking me for directions and other phony questions. The worst part about it is that most women are not even aware of how much looks matter to them!!!! They just say that looks don't matter because it's the politically correct thing to say. To all guys out there: never pay attention to what women say, worry about what they DO, instead.

2006-07-16 08:00:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I totally ignore white girls and if i happen to be attracted to them, i dont get hurt if i am unsuccesful at getting them. Can i have some feedback. =)

2006-07-16 07:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by L' K '06 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex

2006-07-16 07:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Mine isn't that bad but i still have one,just curious on your thoughts

2006-07-16 07:58:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating