2006-07-16 08:08:47 · 26 answers · asked by mada * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you can never coerce another person to like you. If you sincerely like the guy, then i suggest that you talk to him. All is fair in love and war. So, it wouldn't hurt to get some info on your guy friend before you talk to him. get in touch with some of his friends and try to get a picture of what he's really like. Please remember, you should always be yourself. Do not try to reinvent yourself to become someone that you are not just to look attractive to him.
I can tell you with 100% confidence that if you take it slow, you will stand a better chance at success. Get to know the guy better and then take it step by step. If you rush things then you'll risk chasing him away. Love works both ways. So he'll have to like you too.
Good things always come to those who wait. Keep an open mind, always. Promise yourself that if this does not work out, that you'll not beat yourself up over it.
All the best..
2006-07-16 08:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you love a boy and you make him also your lover, but why are u worried about this matter. you know the rule when u run behind any thing the thing is always run forward u. so don't worry about boy. if your love is true then boy will automatically ask u that r u love me. love have the super natural power and it is turn impossible into possible it is proven. if u want any instant remedies then tell about your total love situation then my self or any other expert provide u any use full suggestion.
2006-07-16 15:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by ragg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him and say hi . You don't need to make it complicated. If there is an attraction you will firuge it out. It is like riding a bicycle , everybody can tell you how to do it but you have to try it yourself. P.S. remimber when making new friends dont talk about yourself the whole converation , do some listening also.
2006-07-16 15:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you. But if you want him to have a crush on you. I suggest you guys start off as friends. And then take it to the next level a little later when you two know each other more.
2006-07-16 15:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by mathura529@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control someone else like that. If they're attracted to you, they'll let you know. If not, move on. If you're feeling love for someone you're not even in a relationship with, it's not love, it's infatuation or hormones talking.
2006-07-16 15:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love You!
R u sure u love him, i think not if you think you can make someone love you.
Infatuation is the word you are looking at.
And I think your ? is how can you attract someones attention.
That answer comes with what kind of person you are or want to be. Don't be desperate.
2006-07-16 15:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling is a wonderful things, it can't force to have, if he really don't have feeling for you then he won't love you no matter what you do, but actually you can try to get some clue what type of woman he like, then you kno yrself it is the cup of tea for him, be nice and lovely and caring to him, give him time to accept you. good luck to you.
2006-07-16 15:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by loveable_chic19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start as friends as others have said. Spend time with him doing things you both like. If he doesn't want to be friends then forget him there are other boys for you.
2006-07-16 15:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by KM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant force some onr 2 love u, just be friends 4 a while, i mean u can still spend time wit echother.
2006-07-16 15:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sweetie if it was in our power to make someone love us. I will be with Denzel Washington. LOL Tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way there you go.
2006-07-16 15:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋