I've know this guy for little lesas than a year now and we're doing the same summer theatre show. We also did the same spring one. So he's been flirty and I like him a bit, I just want to know what he's like with no one else around, you know. I am 17 and can't drive, but he is 18 and can. Our rehersals are ending this week. Last one is Thursday and then we have the shows. So, what is a good way to ask him out? Rehersal ends at 9 and I'm not sure he'd be up for something after...but any suggestion is welcome. I'm unsure how to go about this. HELP PLEASE!
2006-07-16 08:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start a converstaion with him about anything and just add that in the conversation
2006-07-16 08:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here are my five points to sweet goodnight kiss success:
1. Here's how I like to do it. I like first meeting my date at the movie theater about 25 minutes before the show starts. That way, you go in and get your choice of seats (make sure you let her choose the seats). Right there you've got about 15 minutes of time to just relax and chat a little. The nice thing here is that there isn't any pressure to have a good long conversation yet. You've got a few minutes to make nice small chat before the movie starts.
2. This is also a good opportunity for you to run to the concession stand. DO THIS AFTER GETTING YOUR SEATS! It show that you're considerate and don't want to make her stand in line at the stand. Make sure to ask what she wants. If she says "nothing"... she's being a polite liar. Get a large popcorn because you KNOW she'll share. If she doesn't ask for anything to drink...play it safe and grab her a bottled water anyway. Tell her "I thought I'd grab this just in case since I was out there anyway". Oh yes grasshopper... you are well on your way to a goodnight kiss.
3. Now, whenever I see a great or horrible movie, I always remember who I saw it with. Shared experiences are really great (good or bad). Throughout the movie (if it's a comedy) you'll end up turning to one another and laughing together, or (if a horror) screaming together (if you're a sissy man), or what ever. It's a simple shared experience. Any shared experience is a good thing on a first date (except for a car accident... that would be bad and counter productive to the whole "goodnight kiss" objective).
4. This part is key... make sure that when the movie is over the night ISN'T over. Pre-plan to hit a local bar or restaurant right after the show to grab a small bite or a drink. Now you can begin having better conversation... and if either of you aren't good at getting the ball rolling, then you can always start with talking about the film. This is a great ice breaker and can get you both loosened up. Don't make the mistake of quietly walking out of the theater and saying "well...goodnight!". All that does is leave you with a lonely rest of the evening and your date wondering why she didn't go out with me instead.
5. Optionally have a third part of the evening planned (like bowling, a nice walk, a club, whatever).
The principle here is that a movie is a good, low pressure way to start the evening, get the ball rolling and share a simple experience together before moving on with your evening.
2006-07-18 10:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you comfortable enough to ask him, "how about we go and get a cup of coffee after the show ends?"
Or, engage him in conversations, asking him about his hobbies, etc. would he like to go on a hike or a bike ride, perhaps play tennis? Ask him if there are any movies he has wanted to see but couldn't because of the show--that's about as subtle a hint as they get.
Get him talking about himself--the rest should fall into place naturally--if it is meant to fall into place.
2006-07-16 15:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how about getting together for a late dinner or a cup of coffee the last night you guys are together? If he's interested that's all you'll have to do. Good luck,
2006-07-16 15:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after the show you could congratulate him on his job well done and then just talk to him for a while, and when get quiet, say i want to talk to you, and then call him alone for a while and ask him out
2006-07-16 15:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Projectrevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him come over to your house and give him a tour and watch t.v. or a movie and have some popcorn...who cares, just let him come over.
2006-07-16 15:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movie is always good, or just go to Starbucks afterwards.
2006-07-16 15:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Michael T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like, when driving home, 'hey, wanna go _________(insert activity here) sometime?' and if he says 'as a date?' just be like 'yeah'. if he just sits there and says nothing, be like 'as a date?' or something.
2006-07-16 15:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by jeny n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dunno!@!
2006-07-16 15:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask! Its that easy....
2006-07-16 15:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋