Why are girls always lying that "looks are not important" to them? If I learned anything in life it's that....

Question

looks are EVERYTHING to girls just as much as they are to guys. Take me, For example, when I gain about 20 pounds, no girl wants anything to do with me. You can even see it in their nasty faces that anything they say to me is strictly for business and nothing else. As soon as I get back into shape, however, it's a TOTALLY different ballgame. All of a sudden I get smiles from everywhere, and girls are always asking me for directions and other phony questions. The worst part about it is that most women are not even aware of how much looks matter to them!!!! They just say that looks don't matter because it's the politically correct thing to say. To all guys out there: never pay attention to what women say, worry about what they DO, instead.

To j Smith 7: I'm talking about ALL members of the opposite sex, from 13 to 100+ years old. It's bullsh** that older women don't care about looks, only younger women, I have consistently proven this over and over again!

to zombiegirl 84: your friends are either lying or in denial.

Answer 1

We are just being polite and modest

Answer 2

With respect, your argument is contradictory. You start by talking about, 'girls...saying that looks are not important', and finish with 'never pay attention to what women say'. Well, my daughter (20) is a girl, my wife (47) is a woman.

So, what are you trying to say here? Are you talking about teenage/20 somethings who have yet to develop the full maturity of an adult? Or women who have done so? Because, if it is the first case, then, sure! Looks are important at that age, since the culture we live in is now so very heavily based on appearance (real and faked). But, if you are referring to the latter group, ie fully developed mature women, I think you will find that what that 'group' wants is intelligence, humor, gentleness, respect, devotion, loyalty and support MUCH more than they want 'looks'.

Perhaps when you yourself are older, you will fully develop these skills.

I wish you well.

Answer 3

Looks do play an important role in finding someone you want, but people need to be realistic, too. Like if you honestly rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10, and u come up with a 6, u have to be mature and realistic enough to not go after, say, a dimepiece (a girl who's looks rate at a 10) but if u have game like me, it doesnt matter how good u look. U can still get any girl u want. Be easy.

Answer 4

Ok here's how it works. People in general, male or female, both are visually fixated to begin with. But once a girls finds a boy attractive, they begin to attach emotionally. On the other hand when a boy finds a girl attractive, they attach physically first and then emotionally. Looks are important for both males and females, the difference is how they develop the relationship after the first meeting.

Answer 5

What seems to attract ladies more than looks is confidence, I think. Maybe you exude more confidence when you are in better shape.

Not that I'm totally disagreeing with your point, I just think there's more to it than you are ascribing. Girls say certain things aren't important to them because they don't want to believe they can be shallow, but in reality they are creatures not unlike us guys, they are attacted to the lovely and repelled by things not so appealing. But for women, mystique is everything, so they don't want to believe it can be that simple. However, there is more that girls are looking for than simply looks; it just so happens that the good looking guys know they are good looking, and thus exude confidence (or something akin to it).

Answer 6

I think people who think looks are the most improtant are shallow. Non of my friends care. I could weigh 700 lbs and have a hump on my back and they still love me! We have been through alot together. I could care less what people think about me, or how I look if they dont like it dont look. there not the kind of people I would want around. The only person I worrie about looking at me is my hubby and he loves me just the way I am.

Answer 7

People don't really know what attracts them to another person. There are some very deep primal urges, some need for someone stable, some want for someone who they feel good with. Looks matter for sure. Would a woman want to bring a handsome man to a class reunion or a dork?

Answer 8

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Answer 9

we r bein polite or we really mean it sum of us girls wunt 2 get 2 kno the guy on the inside not outside. but if grls jus go 4 looks then they b shallow. some go 4 both inside and outside. =)

Answer 10

Actually, looks are not the most important thing to me! Honest! I feel that in order to get the most of their "looks," you must get to know the person inside, not just the out.

Answer 11

We are just being polite and modest cause we dont want to brek your hearts at the first move