Alright I'm 18 and she's 18 also. We've been together for 3 1/2 years and we've had the rises and the falls. Her mom hates me because of her over exaggerating our arguements to her so we've been dating behind her back for a year and a half maybe. I love her so much and she's the only girl I picture myself with, but I can get other women and I know this, I'm a very confident guy. Well lately she's been hanging around new girls and they've been partying alot lately. We finally broke up about 2 months ago. She got a prom date with another boy and they kissed at prom. Then a week later she told me she missed me then came back and we kinda screwed. We were sorta together and wanted to be together but a couple days later she decides to get mad at me over nothing then leave me again. A few days after that she stops by so we can talk then kisses me and same thing happens and she keeps leaving then coming back. Now there is some Andy guy that she likes and I dont know what to do? Please help!
2006-07-16 08:02:27 · 14 answers · asked by linda l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXX stop excepting her back. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-16 08:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sweetheart I can not tell you want to do with your relationship. But I do know this you deserve someone that will help you too take care of your heart. You do not need a seasonal love affair. If you keep allowing her to do it she will continue to do it. She likes you there because she knows she can keep do what she wants to do and you will be there in the wings waiting for her. But as soon as you decide that you are tired of being sick and tired of her treating you like that and move on she will start chasing you. It is the old classic I don't want you anymore and I do not want to see anybody else with you either. Just remember the decision that you make you have to live with it. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!
2006-07-16 08:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if she's there for you, the answer is no. Regarding __she's the only girl I picture myself with__, this is very bad. You should have a self-image that is strong and says that you can be happy and successful with someone else too. Some people who feel this way go through a breakup and are a mess for years because __she's the only one for me___. Break up with her and how she treats you like a weakling with no boundaries. Move on.
2006-07-16 08:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is so playing games with you and why you may ask the answer is b/cuz you are letting her she is moving on with her life and you will still be there to take her back when she wants to come back she is making you look like a fool you need to be a MAN and put your foot down and say no more a person will only do what you allow them to do if you said no i promise you she will not be able to walk all over you again
2006-07-16 08:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is going to end up making u a mental wreck and at the end of it all you will be very very depressed. You will end up as a total introvert and u will lose ur social circle. so before such things happen, move on and find a new girl...
2006-07-16 08:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by thegame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her good bye because she's just playing you now.you don't need to be with a girl who's going to keep playing with you're emotions like that.good luck
2006-07-16 08:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you keep on taking her back so she prolly feels that she can go do whatever and they come back to you. She goes and does her thing, and when she gets bored w/ that she'll say she's sorry and not have to worry about you not taking her back. basicly... she's playing you and u shouldn't put up w/ it.
2006-07-16 08:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by realwomenhavebrains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read your own statement. Get a life and wish Andy good luck, he'll need it.
2006-07-16 08:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Michael T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fire her out !! she needs to be clear for wht is she doin g ? she cant 's be playing a game with you and kep going and coming back again and again
2006-07-16 08:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by i i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it. barely anyone at all marries their high school sweetheart. you'll find another girl, man. forget this one. she isn't worth the trouble.
2006-07-16 08:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-07-16 08:04:02 · answer #11 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋