Family & Relationships - 15 July 2006

Your relationship had no communication or intimacy and when it does have communication, it isn't in reference to the relationship but more worldy conversation. When arguements happened they are bad. I mean bad. Throwing things, breakdowns, leaving someone stranded, etc.
You tried to escape but since the other person has nothing, they are dependent on you (totally.) You have no money to afford a babysitter since this person is watching your children during the day while you work,( they work too).
Everytime a small fight occurs you end up in a breakdown. Your soul is exhausted and no one will listen or be there for you, you are afraid of talking to this person b/c you are afraid of how emotionally uncontrollable you become, you don't recognize yourself anymore.
Everytime you express how something affects you in the relationship, the other person tells you how you treat them, as if they only see how they are being affected.
Therapy not working.

2006-07-15 11:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-15 11:39:10 · 14 answers · asked by venky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My family is driving me nuts! I just turned 16 so I can't drive, I've 2 really annoying younger brothers, and my parents won't let me take martial arts lessons because they think I'll turn into a bully! What can I do to fix my family and convince my parents I want to learn martial arts to become more then what I am?

2006-07-15 11:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 45 years old been married 7 years and the older i get the more i want sex and my wife hates it..she is 10 years older than me..when we first got together she loved it done it 5-6 times a week then it all stopped ..i have a good marriage other than sex..my question is can you still have a marriage and have an affair too? can it go on for a long time ? feelings you have after you do it?

2006-07-15 11:38:01 · 14 answers · asked by jay s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-15 11:35:56 · 5 answers · asked by Hetter 2 in Friends

I am not making fun of anyone, If you think that you should talk to me.

2006-07-15 11:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

what are the best ten words to tell a girl you just met???

2006-07-15 11:34:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 11:33:52 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, I am not cheap idiot. I usually go all-out and spend the big bucks on my dates, however it is OBVIOUS that the girl I going to be going out with soon is not impressed by that.

So, I live in L.A. and I am trying to figure out what would be some absolutely drop dead romantic things to do in this city that don't involve a ton of cash. Obviously, walking on the beach is cliche and walking in the hills at night is dangerous.

So, any ideas?

2006-07-15 11:32:00 · 1 answers · asked by contrafilms 5 in Singles & Dating

We knew each other from, 2nd or 1st grade can't remember. in the 4th and 5h grade, we never talked. then one day in the 6th grade, she came up to me and started talking to me. so then we started talking and then we got in many many many fights and we didn't talk. so i made some new friends. then i figured we weren't friends anymore since we hadn't spoken to each other in 3 weeks. besides we weren't very good friends anyways. she takes advantage of me and she uses me to get her guys by telling them what i like and they end up happily ever after even if i like him. now she is super mad because i've made more friends. I can't understand her! now she says i have to apologize because she doesn't like my new friends cuz i get along with them. is it my fault or should she apologize? also, my best friend is coming back from china after a 3 year trip. my friend says that she wants to make friends with her. but i don't think its a good idea. what should i do?

2006-07-15 11:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by aznsport123 1 in Friends

2006-07-15 11:29:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tattoos or no tattoos on a man,do you think they are sexy or not?
Why or Why not?

2006-07-15 11:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 11:29:18 · 6 answers · asked by carribean girl 2 in Friends

I've been married for a 6 years but I've been attreacted to a younger girls at work and I've lost my sex appetite for my wife even though I love her so much.... Is this normal?

2006-07-15 11:28:35 · 17 answers · asked by tfrosts 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iam going to go crazy thinking of this. The guys in the fire house tell me that when I go over to Iraq fight fires my wife is going to cheat on me. All my life I have seen nothing but my fokes and my sister until she go married. Cheat on their other half. But I trust my wife, I think it is my head. She has done nothing but be a good wife and mother. This has worred me everyday of my life. I'll be gone for one year, And be home every 240 days. I'll get 10days home with my wife and three kids that I love so much. I don't know what I would do without my wife. I do love her.

2006-07-15 11:26:16 · 9 answers · asked by firecoolerman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If he sees a pic he doesn't like he gets mad. He normally looks at them after I go out with friends. Should I feel like he doesn't trust me? Shoud he be going into my phone without asking, I mean I have nothing to hide I just feel intruded upon. We've been together for almost 9 years.

2006-07-15 11:25:31 · 18 answers · asked by lillisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how many people have you slept with? If your boyfriend or girlfriend asks do you tell them a lower number?

2006-07-15 11:25:24 · 16 answers · asked by smitty 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 11:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by smitty 3 in Singles & Dating

ok another ? this guy i met online he really likes me we have never met in person he wrote me a song he says he loves me hes really sweet do i meet him or not and leave my a s s of a hubby?

2006-07-15 11:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by Andrea M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 11:21:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has a problem keeping her legs closed,I don't bring her around nobody's man becuz she always end up sleeping with them.Now we had a cook out at a local park yesterday alot of fun all of us was there (girlfriends).Well Mina bought her man and we told her that it was just for the girls,but they just got married so we did'nt make a big stink about it.Both of them disappeared yesterday @ the cookout and showed back up about 20 min. apart,o.k did'nt think nothing today Cheryl is over my house on the phone whispering and carrying on,so I was like girl what are you doing and she just smiled and told me to think about.I told her I know you did'nt and she looked at me and sucked her teeth like it was a trick question.I said Mina husband when I thought about the M.I.A **** yesterday.Should I tell Mina even though I'm not sure becuz she's real nice and this other one we call her the wild chile.I'm not trying to start nothing among us but I feel bad cause Mina is really nice.

2006-07-15 11:21:21 · 4 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Friends

I think that's stupid.

2006-07-15 11:21:16 · 17 answers · asked by bmwshelly 1 in Family

but NOT fat! and she's a little tall for her age so most boys she likes are shorter than her which is fine but a little weird! But if a guy breaks up w/ her she get's so desperate and goes for the guys she can do so much better than! this one guy has been leading her on for about 5 months and wont ask her out. i try to tell her he's not worth waiting for but she is so desperate she would rather waste her life waiting than having fun! please help what should i do to get her mind off boys (@ least til she's14) lol

2006-07-15 11:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-15 11:20:59 · 22 answers · asked by ilessthanthreeyou 3 in Weddings

Which of these do you think is more likely?
the girl I like spontaneously asking me out the next time I see her, or me buying a lottery ticket and winning £ 500? . Also a riddle. If I was born in the year the year of the goat, which would be more likely then? If anyone gets the riddle right i'll give them best answer. Like to hear your opinions on which is more likely anyway too!

2006-07-15 11:20:39 · 13 answers · asked by mattb77 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 11:20:37 · 24 answers · asked by keke 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 11:20:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hum chhod chale hain mehfil ko yaad aaye kabhi toh mat rona

2006-07-15 11:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in love with a guy who lives in ohio and we r planning to move in together but we got to wait 8 mounths but the problem is i live in south carolina and i dont know when or how to get in touch with him we talk at night but i fear things r gonna get hard when i go back to school what do i do cause i love him and theres no way im lettin him go

2006-07-15 11:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by lollipop 101 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby told me today well for the last 10 yrs. that he wants a divorce! well we bought a house i don't want to give it up cuz of the kids. And i am going to school to better myself and make more money. Is there any financial help out there???

2006-07-15 11:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Marriage & Divorce