ok another ? this guy i met online he really likes me we have never met in person he wrote me a song he says he loves me hes really sweet do i meet him or not and leave my a s s of a hubby?
2006-07-15 11:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by Andrea M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You must be desperate to leave your husband for a guy you've never met. A song is a pretty cheap price to pay for a p&&&&, if you ask me, which you have.
If your husband is so bad you want to leave him, don't put yourself in the same position with a stranger, he won't respect you either.
Best thing any woman can do is stand on her own two feet, suppport herself, then she will be in a better position to choose a man for herself. You have to grow up sometime.
2006-07-15 11:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by saltydog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh ok, this is a problem with computer chat. People fall or think they fall in love with somene else because that person shows them the attention that is lacking at home. More often than not the other person is only showing the best side of themself and they really aren't as wonderfu as they appear to be. It is like the saying.is the grass greener on the other side of the fence.
You need to fniish your marriage before you start leaving your life and even meeting somone else. Your husband might be an ***, but in the equasion you might not be meeting his needs . You being on the computer might make him nasty. This guy on the commputer might live in a dark basement with his mother and is such a looser that the computer is his whole life and you just happen to be someone he has connected while on the computer.
You can't be working on your marriage and romancing a guy online all at the same time. Put the computer guy on hold.
Make up your mind that you need to work on your marriage.
Get counseling. Ask your husband and truely lilsten to WHY he thinks the marriage is having troubles Each of you make a list, then sit down and discuss them.Give your marriage first priority.
The internet guy is just a fleeting moment.....a person who just happens to be meeting your needs at the moment. If you make that moment more important than the rest of your life, you just might be making the biggest mistake of your life.
If you do divorce, do it because you have exhausted your options with making your marriage work. Only then you should start a new life. And meeting that man will most likely be a nightmare.
In a way this man has your running from your current life. That is never the answer to anything. The chances of you and this guy making a life together are slim to none. What has happened is that you are addicted to how he makes you feel. You to feel good so badly that you are willing to give up your current life.
It is like a drug or a drink that covers your pain.
It is time to face your pain head on and make choices; First of all work on your self, until you are happy and content with yourself can you begin to be good for another person.
2006-07-15 18:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on something you already have, just because a random guy wrote you a love song. His doing this so that you would leave your hubby for him, but that is something that you don't want to do. It's better to fix the relationship with your husband then to try and start a new one. In time things will be better. Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like might leave you for the one they love. Basically don't give up on something that you already have, unless you truely feel in your heart that you are ready to take that step in life.
2006-07-15 18:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyes07087 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met a bartender once and fell in love with him while i was with my ex husband and mind you i knew the bartender for a few years first other guys had wanted to be with me sexually but it is only the bartender that i found good enough, so since my "hubby" had cheated on me i wanted to find out if that i had a single time affair with someone i loved would i be able to forgive my husband for cheating ,neglect, physical and verbal abuse well i wasn't! don't meet strangers from online though and if you meet be surrounded in a place of public with people you know and don't let him know where you live, if he doesn't act right tell him ther are other guys online that you want to meet that you have talked to and you just wanted to meet him as one of them
2006-07-15 18:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most internet chat meetins are for sex and not much else, regardless of what the guy says, Yahoo Chat is to Hookup and thats about it, you shoudl leave your hub and then persue something, many men on yahoo chat won't be interested after you say your single but if your married its like getting something for nothing.
2006-07-19 15:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can come across any way they want on line. You are married and need to act like you are married. Work on your marriage, do the right thing, and forget about this guy. You shouldn't be looking for another relationship when you are still in one.
2006-07-15 18:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by ConcerndHomeowner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably do what you need to do with your Husband first, Leave him or fix things. Then start pursuing other options.
2006-07-15 18:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by chrissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get out of your abusive relationship.
2006-07-19 15:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, he is probably some sleeze ball who just says these things so he can get a piece of as s
2006-07-15 18:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Miller Light Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I just looked at your yahoo profile and you're hot
2006-07-15 18:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋