I've been married for a 6 years but I've been attreacted to a younger girls at work and I've lost my sex appetite for my wife even though I love her so much.... Is this normal?
2006-07-15 11:28:35 · 17 answers · asked by tfrosts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well I'm not anyone to tell you what is normal or what isn't, just don't do anything you can regret of... if you really love her, treat her like you've just met her... why don't you talk to her to do some fun things to spice up things!
2006-07-15 11:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say yes normal. but i want to add that if a married guy is attracted to younger girls, the main reason would be to make ones self feel better about themselves, and wanting to think that they are not aging. I do though think that if you and wife are having issues of sex or your so called "appetite for sex for her", that maybe you should try to initiate and spice it up surprise her. Maybe she will surprise you. Communication is also important. Does she know how you feel about her? If you want things to be different, you need to be honest and find a solution together. Being flirty or attracted to other women can be a normal thing, but if you love your wife like you say you do, you will not act on this attraction. Instead work or attempt to work things out with her. Good luck.
2006-07-15 11:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by tiffani72kmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Because you are letting the wrong head do you thinking. Better see what you can do to bring life back into your marriage. Part of the problem is you got the hots for some young thing at work who has nice firm **** because she's 10 years younger. Wake up and buy some roses to give to your wife. Romance her again. Pretend you just met her and you're courting her. She will love it. Go on a date. If you have children hire a baby sitter. You will be surprise. Get a room. Go out in the county like when you guys were young and put it to her. She will be happily surprise. Go for it and forget that Young thing at work. You're just looking for trouble if you go chasing her. You may get some but it will destroy your marriage and your job.And if you have children it will destroy them too. I know!
2006-07-15 11:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is complicated to tell. some 20 365 days olds are very a techniques from interior the main appropriate suggestions-set for marriage. and a few 30 365 days olds are the comparable way, too. it could purely be incorrect if one among you wasn't waiting to make the commitments required of marriage. while you're on the comparable internet site, and are waiting for marriage (and all that it includes), then decide for it. you're the two adults.
2016-11-02 03:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by sokin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I don't know if it's normal or not, but this sounds like a crummy road to be headed down.
If you love your wife so much, like you claim to, you better start telling your wife all of the secrets (big & little) you've been keeping from her, or you won't have a wife for much longer. (Don't lie to yourself by trying to say that you don't have any.)
That's the only reason guys start looking at other girls, because they've done things they shouldn't have, to the ones they're with now. It feels great to just disclose all of those secrects.
If she gets upset, then SHE has a few secrets of her own.
That's a fact, Jack.
2006-07-15 13:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how young the girls are.. if they are so young they are still children then u need lots of help, but if its becuase your wife has not been trying to keep you looking and interested then tell her and take your love problems to your wife who is suppose to take care of all your needs
2006-07-15 11:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes as long as you are exposed to girls so close like work or school it is attraction of convenience as long as you don't act on it you are fine cause if you gave your wife a disease or she found out about it it wouldn't be worth it
2006-07-15 11:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just horny, nothin' wrong with that,U just got the 7 year itch a year early!a wee bit of self-control might help,failing that,ask the wife if it would be o.k. for you to shag the other bird to get it out your system.
2006-07-15 12:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by wee man ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is but beleive me if ur wife found out she'll lose respect for u it's wrong
2006-07-15 11:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by SaSa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a married man control yourself mate! respect/honour yourself and your wife
2006-07-15 11:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋