My hubby told me today well for the last 10 yrs. that he wants a divorce! well we bought a house i don't want to give it up cuz of the kids. And i am going to school to better myself and make more money. Is there any financial help out there???
2006-07-15 11:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do you think i should let him stay in my house till i finish school? this is what he proposes. it might be ok but i still think there will be conflicts
2006-07-16 06:20:31 · update #1
here is your option, get spousal support, you been married for 10 years at least, you earned it, if he wants out hes gotta pay for his freedom.
2006-07-15 11:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you have made your life you will have to tough it out. There is no reason why you should have to give up the house, after all he is the one wanting the divorce. Let him leave and make the payments. If he has told you for the last ten years he wants a divorce by all means let him have it. Why buy a house where there is no love. If you don't want the house sell it and split the equity.
2006-07-15 18:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the first and most important thing in a divorce is, unless you are documented on paper (police reports, medical records, etc.) as being a child abuser or drug abuser, most states will award child custody to the mother and along with this comes possession of the house, along with child and spousal support so you wont be hurting financially too bad. With goining to school and this support help, you should be able to get back on your feet in a short time. There are groups out there that willhelp you with whatever you need if you should desire. Most of all, if at possible, depart as friends and try to work out the details before going to court as it is cheaper, the judges love it and it makes it somewhat easier on the kids to see their parents depart as friends, and its easier on down the road too. Any more I can help you with, just email me. Sorry about your divorce and good luck on your future.
2006-07-15 18:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what state you live in there is lots of help. I am a single mom who works full time and goes to school full time, I see my son alot so I am not taking any time away from him. I will be going to work part time and the state will help me AND NO FOR ALL YOU ITS NOT WELFARE!!! the state helps poeple who want to better themselfs whether they have kids or not but single moms have lots of programs to chose from. And staying to gether will only harm the children in the long run, they can siince it even though you dont know it... I learned that the hard way. we are better parents no that we are not together and you can see it in the way our son strives it will be hard at first..
2006-07-15 18:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by michellerdias2124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a divorce... Explain to him that you don't want a divorce.. Find out what the problem is and fix it..
2006-07-15 18:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by j.swaney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
social services, and churches that have food programs and some used stores or other places give free clothes in their growing years kids needem
2006-07-15 18:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with a lawyer to see what can be done. Then go to your county and ask for aid for you and your children. Don't be ashamed to ask for aid, all the illegals get it and don't deserve it. You do.
2006-07-15 19:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u in the uk or the states ? im, me
2006-07-15 18:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by SALLY N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋