It's not like he wants her back, or that anything bad is happening, but it's starting to get to me. She sends him text messages like "did we have fun?" (regarding their relationship) or things like "are you in love?", when I think they're just rediculous questions to ask because 1) she has a new boyfriend who is in the army, and if she cared about him, she wouldn't be worried about her old relationship, and 2) whether or not we're in love shouldn't matter to her because it's not her relationship. I wish she would just leave him alone.
Another problem is that all my boyfriend does in response to these messages is ignore them. That, to me, is not really helping much. It's saying, "I don't want to hurt her", but at the same time, it's saying "it's okay that she sends me the messages, since I don't respond to them anyhow". Why doesn't he just text her and tell her to leave him alone? Or at least to stop asking dumb questions?
I love this guy so much. This is killing me.
2006-07-14
10:14:18
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