What should I do?

Question

Okay so a coworker asked me to have dinner liek a friend thing well I thought since we bullshit around n talk u know but tehn we ate n had drinks n were watching a movie w my neighbor at my house, well after drinks whatever we were sitting to gether as he was trying to kiss i said no then trying to umm rub me well long story short he gave me pleasure i guess n i said nuthin more . well teh next day at work he was following me around n calling my extension just to talk , every time i get up he wants to know where i am going damn can i crap hahahahahaah i just wonder how to tell him okay enough w out making him act funny we work together. i told him i dont want a relationship i like being singele. i am a single mm of 4 kids he says he can play dad how bout no i am dad so it just gets me thinking maybe i dont liek him since it was too easy for me u think? i kinda tend to like a challenge and he was so following my every step and bows to whatever i say even if im rude. what to do?

okay so i told him no relations only work he says no shop talk i love you hell no and i just gives him dirty looks

Answer 1

oh homicide had an episode like that- the next day olivia has to tell the co-worker that it really was nice but thats ALL and he doesn't take it very well. dirty looks tho are not going to work.

you are going to have to tell him one more time to back off- it was nice- but that is all and you mean it- and why can't he just be a good co=worker because it is getting close to harrassment or stalker...say you wish him well- and goodbye

Answer 2

if you don't like him, don't let him touch you or talk to you about anything that's not work-related. even if it's weird at work. tell him straight out you don't like him "that way", or that you are too busy to have a relationships w/ anyone right now, and you hope you can be just friends/coworkers. just be professional and no more physical contact. if he continues to bother you, you can consider reporting harrasment at work (only as last resort if at work you can't work with him because he's being a jerk or something).