Because he said he had threw everything up in my facew after no talking and could do it again. He left 24 messages asking me to turn on my phone and playing random music then 1 message saying **** me and 1 message saying he never liked me he just wanted my friend and he started to like me but he liked my friend better and then ending the message with I'm a B&%$# and I can delete his number. Yet now we are in the same summer school and I have saw him from afar like twice but now I'm skeptical because I'm hurt. We knew each other for one year and dated for 8 months then for 8 months he had no contact what so ever then he comes back off and on and finally ending it with the last message. And i have to go to summer school knowing he's there everyday and I'm hurt. I have to act normal like what he said did'nt matter and 'm fine when I see him. lease tell me if you think he'll talk to me when he see's me at summer school before summers over or continue to act like I'm nothing????
2006-07-14 10:08:02 · 5 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
babygurl as long he is not in your class you are fine..you NEED to ignore him..i know this trust me from my ex..they play childish games like this..they run back and forth..in and out..how old are you both? it sounds real immature and childish..obviously i think he has feelings for you or he misses you or he still cares because baby look at it this way..if he didnt give a damn about you why would he waste his breath or time to leave you 24 messages?? u need to drop him..every time he calls dont answer..dont listen to anymore messages..delete..remove..ignore ALL conact..he is a child..a boy..immature! let him go..hes only hurting you and move on you deserve so much better..forget about the past thats all you have to do..i know its hard..i been there and back many times babygurl..just look at it positive..hes missing out..hes the childish one..be the adult and let it go..move on..i know its hard and its easier said then done..if you cant..just write a note as if its to him..BUT DONT GIVE IT TOOHIM! just write a note and fold it and put it in your drawer trust me it will make you feel better thats what i do..only talking to him will create a bigger problem and make this situation worser. if he is not in your class thats better because then you dont HAVE to see him..if he does say something to you..let him talk to you first..and say i want to be an adult about this tell him how you feel..that doesnt hurt i know that will make u feel better..tell you i have moved on why cant you!?? he misses you..and hes childish and he doesnt know how to express his feelings 2u..him calling you names and telling u about other girls hes doing this to make you feel lilke you are nothing..thats giving him power when he sees what hes doing is working..dont give him power..smile around him..when u see him from a distance play it off when you are with someone let him see you are happy and better off with out him..turn the tables baby! make him feel whta hes making you feel like..dont let him know what hes doing is hurting you..find a guy you are cool with and make him jelous play the games hes playing...good luck!
2006-07-14 10:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should steer clear of this guy. His name should not be in your phone. If he speaks to you, smile and walk away as fast as possible.
You need to "put on a happy face" because he should never know that you are hurt. Please do not talk to him. Just be too busy to have a conversation with him.
You will be fine, but don't let him make anymore rules about this relationship. You take charge. Find yourself a group of friends and hang with them before and after school. Stay away from this loser. Stay away from people who want to hurt you. Start a new path. Make that new path lead to happiness and away from hurts from the past.
Move forward. Keep away from that guy. Love yourself.
2006-07-14 11:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he ever calls your phone again your going to give all his messages to the police ( even though you haven't saved them ). Hopefully it will scare him enough to stop calling you. And as for everything else tell him to piss off, don't trip off him. Hes very insecure and immature
2006-07-14 10:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have and ex that acts the same..i dont think he will tlk 2 u but if he does and u feel like tlking keep it simple and dont give any feelings away
2006-07-14 10:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by gothbabe14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. You're to fine to waste you time on such a freak
2006-07-14 10:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by davi h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋