Im in the military and station in Washington State. I met this guy when i went to Texas, he is also in the military. We went out a couple times, but then i left Texas. We didn't see each other for 2 weeks, they he came to Washington, stay here for a week. After that he left to be station in Japan. At first everything was cool, we used to E-mail each other a lot, and talk in the phone couple times. And now I haven't heard from him in almost 3 weeks. I E-mail him couple times but never received a respond from him. I don't what to do. Please Help!!! Im desperate.
2006-07-14 10:10:35 · 7 answers · asked by MISTERIOSA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bf is in the military so i know how hard it can be. being in the military yourself of course you're aware of all the ups and downs and the busy schedules that come with it. was he supposed to be deployed any time soon? if so, it takes a while for them to get settled in. if not, then try a few more times. if he is just ignoring you then he's not the kind of guy you should be with anyway. you deserve someone who will answer those emails!
2006-07-14 10:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. It is such a cliche to say that long-distance relationships never work out, but I can say from my own personal experiences, that this is true. Three weeks is too long not to hear from somebody you are in a relationship with. If they can't make time for you, even for a quick, one-line e-mail, in that amount of time, they are not thinking about you as much as they should be. If you stay in, you will only suffer more heartache.
2006-07-14 10:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont think u shuld stick with him cuz wat if something happens while hes away? its better to just cut the realtionship or else ur gonna end up getting even more hurt. long relationships dont always work out,. and if u guys were meant to be dont u think that l8r on hell come baq to ur life? as for now, just have fun and date other ppl or wait until u stop hurting
2006-07-14 10:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt easy if one it is a one sided relationship. if you do get ahold of him, let him know now you feel. he doesnt sound very interested or he is busy, one or the other.
2006-07-14 10:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him snail mail, maybe his computer was used for target partice,
2006-07-14 10:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise visit him or break up with him
2006-07-14 10:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by my_sports10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are other ways to connect with him....
2006-07-14 10:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by ogbobbypickle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋