i've heard and seen in tv how girls start pushing themselves on guys sometimes when they are horny..or normally they think a guy is healthy and that we enjoy carassing them and having body contact.. But do you ever stop and think that guys can have some extreme penile damage, and although we in our minds think about sex and the such, we get pain with erections or sex to the point where we do't even want to do it.. Well i just ponder, cause maybe im the only one, but i had a very bad penile injury, now it's better, but sex or touching or sometimes erections hurt badly.so it feels kind of sad because I know girls want to kiss us guys or make us horny as a reward,, and think we will love it.. So i don't want to get girls' hopes up if they ever meet me or come to have a relationship with me.
I feel all girls when they see a guy, and if he's not in a whellchair or somethng,, they like him or something and never assume he may have penile or testicle problems
2006-07-14 10:03:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I must say, you are a rare case. Most guys that I met like to be aroused and they like it when you play hard to get. To them it's a challenge that they love to conquer. All you have to do is be honest with the girls you are with and tell them your problem. I am sure they will understand, but at some point in the relationship you will have sex with them and have to face your problem. SEX is a natural and vital part of any relationship or marriage. So just be honest and you will be alright. Hope that helps.
2006-07-14 10:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by curleysue272000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well' brother i feel really sorry for u just wait for 7months or more and don't have any body contact with a girl for that time and after that it's upto u and if there is a problem still then u must consult a doctor don't think of i every time coz that will make u tense think or other activities better then that and i really think that the girlz must think for that.
Please my friend pleeeeease pleeeeeeaase give me as many points as possible coz i really for u don't forget i really feel for u.
2006-07-14 17:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your condition. But to answer your question... I don't think any girls just stop in the middle of a makeout session and think, "Hm... I wonder if he has a penile injury" kind of like you wouldn't think to every new person you meet "I wonder if this person has a terminal illness."
2006-07-14 17:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Hotaru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you expect woman to just know this???? Try being honest from the get go, or simply tell them your not interested in a sexual relationship. You can't expect someone to act abnormal simply because your parts aren't, and you haven't disclosed that info to them. If you can't be a little honest why should they stick around to get to know you better?
2006-07-14 17:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you need to seek some medical advice. You did not tell us what your injury was so it is hard to answer your question completely.
All you have to do is be honest with girls. Most girls can adapt to many situations.
2006-07-14 17:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no i didnt really think that mii man had ne problems with dat. well not till after awile i aksed him if it ever bothered or hurt him. wow i hope ur woohhhooo gets better dats really got to suk , u no u cant get horny all da time. well hope everythin workks out.bye=)
mucho amor y respecto
peeeeeeeeeeeace
2006-07-14 17:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by {{;*$! BIANCA_A.K.A_CARNE !$*;}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, but most women unlike men aren't really that concerned with sex. So we aren't wondering about broken penises or any penis for that matter. Don't stress yourself over this, cuz it means a whole lot more to you than it does us!!!!
2006-07-14 17:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...most guys don't.
We generally assume that people don't have cancer, aids, a bomb strapped to their body, etc.
You're condition is outside of the range of normal. You're going to have to share that info with the girls that you date.
2006-07-14 17:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll be okay, just be honest and all girls are not like that because they are shy so they wait for the guy to make the first move
2006-07-14 17:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right. I have NEVER thought of that but then again I have never met a guy who didn't try to get down my pants immediately.
2006-07-14 17:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋