Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

My husband lives overseas and we have been married for a year already.He is my second marriage. I was denied of the visa on our first try bec of my first marriage of which i thought was never considered a marriage at all bec I was only a minor when i got married then.So, now I am just waiting for the courts decision before we can reapply for a visa again.But things with my husband now have been hard.He has problems at home, I want to help but I cant bec of being so far away from him.I want to give him my love and make him feel he isn't alone.The past days,he told me he has no more strength with everything.But he told me the last thing he would want is to walk away from me and the love he has for me.I am totally confused!I cant move, cant eat and cant even take care of things around me bec of being so depressed but more than I am, I know he has more problems right now, that he is more depressed of so many things bec of being alone and not having me around him to support and love him.

2006-07-13 04:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by kris 2 in Family

quiting a friendship. PS. the friend is a girl.

2006-07-13 04:05:50 · 32 answers · asked by Elisabeth 3 queen of England 3 in Friends

all the people i have dated end up leaving or really hurting me i dont understand why. why i cant find somebody who really loves me .

2006-07-13 04:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by chrissygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

The other day I seen something about black girls have the worst attitude and I felt affended because I am black why would someone say such a thing. An attitude comes in any race at least that what I thought........

2006-07-13 04:05:40 · 22 answers · asked by GOURGEOUS 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 04:05:39 · 12 answers · asked by city_shuffle 2 in Family

I've been married a little over 2 years. My husband and I are in the process of a divorce. The reasons leading up to the divorce: infidelity because of differing wants and needs. Basically he cheated and went back to his ex wife and he's still with her. I left him after I cheated too. I am still with the man I cheated with and we are happy together. However, I have this distinct issue that I can't get out of my head. Doesn't it make me look like the better person since he's the one who a) cheated first b) cheated with an ex wife after having married me c) is still with her? I am told since I am the one who filed for the divorce (rightfully I feel) that I am the one who gave up too easily. I would beg to differ under the circumstances that he never got over his ex wife enough to give me the chance I deserved! Any thoughts on this situation? I know its pretty screwed up.

2006-07-13 04:05:22 · 14 answers · asked by sweetypie9 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 04:05:05 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 04:03:56 · 19 answers · asked by mosafere_shahre_ghamam 1 in Weddings

She is from one of the european country.I am from Asia. we started acquianted thro mail for the past two years and met last week in person.She came with his family to see her father working over in Big ben city. to I spent three days with her and her family.But I didnt tell anything&touch her.She got angry when I had beer and smoke offered by his father's friend.Thats is the first time in my life having a sip of beer and smoke.She scolded him.She cared me verymuch but she didnt tell any thing like that.Really I am confused what to do? I messaged her thrice about what I felt,that means I am thinking of her always. But she didnt respond to my message.Then I called her few times,she attened and spoke normally! What I can infer from this? Then why should she tell my friend that she wants to love me? How can I know that she loves me? Shall I ask her in mail again when she returns to her home? I started loving her madly after I saw her.Normally I am shy and calm.Pls help me to know!

2006-07-13 04:03:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend and groomsman is coming in from out of town and bringing his girlfriend. Should she be invited to the rehersal dinner?

2006-07-13 04:03:19 · 16 answers · asked by rlbintegrity 2 in Weddings

I'd like to meet some new people on yahoo. So, I figured I'd just ask & answer a lot of questions.

2006-07-13 04:02:35 · 17 answers · asked by CC 1 in Friends

2006-07-13 04:02:27 · 24 answers · asked by Girl in Pink 1 in Singles & Dating

A month ago I met this guy in a party. I got drunk and high. I slept with the boy. He put his number in my phone, I called him and we've been talking ever since. He says he really likes me and that scares him because he thinks I might be the one. I really like him too. I don't know if this is true, should I go with the flow or stop talking to him? We last talked on Monday. . .I text him on tuesday and he never wrote back. I really want to see him again. . Should I call him or wait and let him call me?

2006-07-13 04:01:30 · 12 answers · asked by ire_nene21 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 03:59:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For about a year and a half we have been sleeping in the same bed. This long ago I felt him shaking or doing something in bed. I asked him what he was doing, and vehemently said nothing. Every time after i would think he was doing something he would get super angry and deny that it was anything. I beleive that I this is a trigger for me. I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I began thinking that I was just interpreting his actions as those of being sexual becuase of this. Every time after this I would feel something or hear something, I would tell him and he would deny and would say its just my issues. The things he does in bed has been getting more sexual more obvious over time. There is a vibration in the bed now, and I hear a buzzing. I see his hands move, and can feel them under the blanket. I began to engage him just this last week and he responds to me, but he looks to be sleeping. It was very vigoros and with lots movement, me and him. I dont know what to think.

2006-07-13 03:58:24 · 27 answers · asked by FattyAssi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your hubby works overseas. Came back for a short holiday to his wife and kids. Brought back a stack of dirty laundry to wash. FOUND! a used G-String amongst the dirty laundry!

2006-07-13 03:58:20 · 28 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a guy proposed me .i donno weather i like him or not.
i dont want 2 hurt his feelins.he has good looks and nature.wat 2 do????!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-13 03:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by angel 1 in Friends

2006-07-13 03:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by Mauricio P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked my first love that if he loves me and he said "I adore you" is that love?

2006-07-13 03:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

RECITE ME A SHORT POEM.

2006-07-13 03:56:44 · 9 answers · asked by Feathers-n-Lace 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 03:56:32 · 19 answers · asked by logic 1 in Family

I met this guy . He has a child and has been with his girl for almost 5 years. We share many tramatic experiences, so that in return makes us really close. . He comes over regularly and we have dinner, watch movies and just listen to music. We have much in common. He's a very hard working man and i love that. I know he cares for his girl and we don't ususally talk about her. He never dogged her out to me which i respect very much. We have been intimate a few times and i must say it was wrong, but if doing that was so wrong i don't want to be right. He has asked " what if you find sombody"? I said i wouldn't be able to answer because that time hasn't come. He say's that he want to keep us both but, at times i feel that i cant sit around and wait for his sexy a**. I might be really feeling him but I try to keep our friendship at a comfortable level. With hope thatone day she will mess up and i will have him. Am I just crazy in love? NOT. but i am going crazy.

2006-07-13 03:55:54 · 53 answers · asked by Cookie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what to do, she has made it very clear...help!

2006-07-13 03:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by JADE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend has been asking my mother about me recently, but I have been married to my best friend for ten years, have children, and a great life. The man in question went to the service, is back now, and is asking my mother about how to get in touch with me. What should I do?

2006-07-13 03:54:44 · 10 answers · asked by tara m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, I literally have NO friends on yahoo. I just signed up, and everyone already seems to have about 2 million friends. Even my cousin has friends.Any advice?

2006-07-13 03:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by CC 1 in Friends

adult men, please (age 25+)

Do you think you could be happy for the rest of your life with the same woman? Do you think you would tire of being in that relationship for so many years?

2006-07-13 03:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 03:52:51 · 28 answers · asked by laid-back 1 in Singles & Dating

is it when u perform a religious ceremony?
go to a registry?
or you just know you have stopped searching?

2006-07-13 03:51:47 · 14 answers · asked by The general 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so, me and this guy liked eachother and one day we were play fighting and he ran up to me and before you know it he was laying on the ground with a nose bleed, but it was a mistake. he's still hurt (emotionally) and it happened last year in NOVEMBER!!!!! how bad did i really hurt him ? i just don't understand why he's still mad.!

2006-07-13 03:50:54 · 30 answers · asked by cutie pie!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

this person is phyisicly perfect in everyway but wants nothing but a good time, but (heres the catch) you are in a long term relationship would you go for gold and keep your mouth shut or dissmiss the offer and leave it be,... (oh and you work with this person everyday...)

2006-07-13 03:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships