My husband lives overseas and we have been married for a year already.He is my second marriage. I was denied of the visa on our first try bec of my first marriage of which i thought was never considered a marriage at all bec I was only a minor when i got married then.So, now I am just waiting for the courts decision before we can reapply for a visa again.But things with my husband now have been hard.He has problems at home, I want to help but I cant bec of being so far away from him.I want to give him my love and make him feel he isn't alone.The past days,he told me he has no more strength with everything.But he told me the last thing he would want is to walk away from me and the love he has for me.I am totally confused!I cant move, cant eat and cant even take care of things around me bec of being so depressed but more than I am, I know he has more problems right now, that he is more depressed of so many things bec of being alone and not having me around him to support and love him.
2006-07-13 04:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by kris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Pray for strength, and that you can get your visa and be with him soon. I hope everything works out so the two of you can be happy together. Your husband would want you to eat and take care of yourself though. You're no good to him if you fall apart and starve. :) Constantly reassure him that you're waiting for him, tell him to be strong and that you'll be together as soon as possible.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 04:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon_01 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest a trip to visit each other, but I guess that is out of the question because of problems at home. What sort of problems you did not say. Are you in the US or is he? Could you afford to go visit him on a visitor's visa? Can you talk over the Internet using IM or ICQ? You know, a cheap ($20) web cam can have you see each other and that's not as good as a visit, but being able to see and talk is better than nothing. Are you waiting for a spouse visa? That's harder than a fiancee visa, so you may have to wait a long time. There is no quick fix for your situation, but maybe the webcam could help a little.
2006-07-13 04:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Pandak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, falling apart yourself definitely won't help your marriage. Just tell him what you just sid to us. Write it in a letter. Tell him how you feel and what you want to do for him and how you feel about him, etc. If you both truly love each other, you can be apart and still be in love and love. Pray! Through God, all things are possible. Good luck!
2006-07-13 04:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 07:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there i have the same problem in the us with my fiance and a mother who wants to deport me back.you do know that you could go visit him.talk to him and show him that you are there for him.it might seem like you can't do anything but thats not true,because if the love is strong enough you both will get through with that.i wish both of you good luck.
2006-07-13 04:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long did you live as husband and wife before he moved ?
Why doesn't he move back where you are ?
Send him a love poem in the mail (E-mail)
Send a sexy picture of you in the mail (E-mail.)
2006-07-13 04:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by StarGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does not kill us makes us stronger... the same goes with marriage.
imagine the beautiful passionate reunion you will have when this is all done... let that carry you through.
stay strong!
2006-07-13 05:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Patti B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋