so, me and this guy liked eachother and one day we were play fighting and he ran up to me and before you know it he was laying on the ground with a nose bleed, but it was a mistake. he's still hurt (emotionally) and it happened last year in NOVEMBER!!!!! how bad did i really hurt him ? i just don't understand why he's still mad.!
2006-07-13 03:50:54 · 30 answers · asked by cutie pie!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm not a guy but that is very childish, he should get over it. If you said "I'm sorry" and he truely knows it was an accident, it is no longer your fault to feel bad about it. He is just looking for pity and it's been almost a year. Tell him to let it go and don't feel bad for it, it was an accident!
2006-07-13 03:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Him getting hurt physically has hurt him emotionally this long?? Sounds like a huge wimp! Now, I believe that men can, and should show emotions in a relationship and there is nothing wrong with being emotional. But being upset cause a girl accidentally gave you a bloody nose while play fighting is recockulous!! I think you need a boys opinion as this guy is clearly not a man yet. You didn't do anything wrong, that's for sure! Take care!
2006-07-13 10:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by johnhategoblins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has other issues. If it was an accident my advise is to move on. If he brings it up be blunt and tell him your sorry and it was an accident so drop it. Do you want a man that can't take a little discomfort or confident in there on man hood to have a bloody nose from a girl. Good luck, Michael
2006-07-13 10:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by ganbrightar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how sensitive his ego is. For me, I'd shake it off right away. For some guys, it's the sort of thing you can never live down. Getting flattened by a woman could be very humiliating for some guys. At this point, there's not much you can do about it, but if you really like him, you should make sure he knows that.
2006-07-13 10:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by foofoo19472 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's pretty soft so who cares! If you two were really just playing I'm sure u didn't intend to hurt him but, if he's still mad let him live with it and you let it go! You know it was an accident...he's needs to stop being a wimp and accept it as well.
2006-07-13 10:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by oneluv66366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's the thing. No man wants to be beat up by a girl. Especially not one he sees as cute.
Yeah it was an accident but that doesn't mean his buddies wouldn't make fun of him and that his ego wasn't hurt.
When guys play fight with you they want to see you back down like a puppy not to have you fight back and kick their butt
2006-07-13 10:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure this "man" isn't a woman in disguise? Sounds like he is a total wimp! Maybe he has been physically abused at home. That is the only explaination I can figure for him dwelling on this no big deal issue!
2006-07-13 10:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably hurt his ego more then anything he probably felt bad that a girl whooped him don't worry about it. did you tell him that you were just playing and if you wanted to you could have put him in the hospital look for some one else or ask him how bad you hurt him and tell him how very sorry you are that you cant help that your hands are a deadly weapon and you wont do it again.
2006-07-13 10:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you injured his pride. If that's the case, then he should be a man and get over it. My gf is a blue belt in Taekwondo, so I know that if I play fight with her I need be be ready for anything... even getting my a$$ kicked=P
2006-07-13 11:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by linetap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence. but a guy get a bloody nose 8 months ago and is still biathcin about. he a pusy. go get someone who would understand what u did that day and that it was an accident.
2006-07-13 10:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by Judah[[S.P.]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋