A month ago I met this guy in a party. I got drunk and high. I slept with the boy. He put his number in my phone, I called him and we've been talking ever since. He says he really likes me and that scares him because he thinks I might be the one. I really like him too. I don't know if this is true, should I go with the flow or stop talking to him? We last talked on Monday. . .I text him on tuesday and he never wrote back. I really want to see him again. . Should I call him or wait and let him call me?
2006-07-13 04:01:30 · 12 answers · asked by ire_nene21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that is a nice way to say that you met a guy... lol you should not be high and drunk when you meet " the one"
but other than that...yea call him, and see how it goes...if it seems that he is avoiding you then, i guess it just wasn't meant to be.
2006-07-13 04:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by jenzen25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is an interesting one. I appreciate the detail and candor, it makes it easier to analyze the situation.
First of all, he doesn't think you're the one. If he does, he's out of his gourd. No one can tell that after drunk sex one night. It's not possible. He's feeding you a line, and a pretty lame one at that.
That aside, he may believe it. It's hard to tell.
My feeling on this is that he would love to roll some kush, drink a sixer and knock boots with you again. Whether or not it's LOVE remains to be seen.
I suggest that if you liked your first night together, do it again.
Call him up and tell him you want to see him this weekend. Tell him you want some more of the good stuff. He'll be interested. If he does like you, he'll make the time. If he's playing you, he'll give you some b.s. excuse.
Since your relationship thus far is based on partying and sex, I wouldn't count on it developing beyond that unless that's the foundation. Basically, if you want more, you're going to have to smoke up, get drunk and get naked with him some more. You leave yourself open to looking like a party girl, but it sounds like you already are.
2006-07-13 04:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him telling you you could be the one is nothing but a lie. You know him a month and you haven't spoken since Monday. If a guy likes you he calls and sees you. That is just fact. Do not call him again and if he calls you be certain that things will continue to be the same. He will call when he has nothing else to do.
2006-07-13 04:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Tell him the truth about what you think. As soon as you say those words he'll relax and you can both agree to slow down, have some fun, and see how it goes.
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2016-11-06 07:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go and call him. the best approch is when you show your interested. most guys love it when a gal makes the first move so just tell him how you feel then you guys will just click together.
2006-07-13 04:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by nati_punk_4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes prolly thinkin the same thing
2006-07-13 04:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him.
2006-07-13 04:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Thor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might look desperate.
2006-07-13 04:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by littlebopeep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god just call him
2006-07-13 04:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by ohmywhatamessimin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋