For about a year and a half we have been sleeping in the same bed. This long ago I felt him shaking or doing something in bed. I asked him what he was doing, and vehemently said nothing. Every time after i would think he was doing something he would get super angry and deny that it was anything. I beleive that I this is a trigger for me. I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I began thinking that I was just interpreting his actions as those of being sexual becuase of this. Every time after this I would feel something or hear something, I would tell him and he would deny and would say its just my issues. The things he does in bed has been getting more sexual more obvious over time. There is a vibration in the bed now, and I hear a buzzing. I see his hands move, and can feel them under the blanket. I began to engage him just this last week and he responds to me, but he looks to be sleeping. It was very vigoros and with lots movement, me and him. I dont know what to think.
2006-07-13 03:58:24 · 27 answers · asked by FattyAssi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he is using a smaller version of some type of sex machine for men. Which would account for the vibration/buzzing sound. It is really just another form of masterbation which really has nothing to do with sex sometimes. I play with myself everynight before I go to sleep with my husband laying next to me, even when we have just finsihed having sex, it helps me sleep. He has offered to help me but he does not do it the way I like it. You can do one or two things you can let it go or you can bust him if you bust him it might get worst before it gets better you can snatch the covers back when you here the buzzing sound and see what is going on. When you do that if he is doing something that is not to freaky for you ask to help or join in.
2006-07-13 04:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by dorleejohnson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should step the sex up a noch first thing u do is when feel the bed moving and shaking u should reach over and start feeling on him or before it starts just start sucking his dick u will see big chance especially when hes sleep and just give him some head an when he wakes up he will be a new man really try this im a man so trust me well dont trust beleave that
2006-07-13 04:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by terrance e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him what he needs the most A loving hand. Take the vibrator away from him and show him what you can do with it. Give him some oral sex while he is asleep. He will stop masterbating only after you show more action.
2006-07-13 04:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by marcymay3219 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that since you know what he is doing, you should offer to be a partner and help him, it isn't a new thing you know, but you are making him feel that it is and causing him to lie to you all the time take the mystery out of it and be a willing partner.
2006-07-13 04:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by toolman1_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either leave him alone and let him get off or give the man a damn ******* already. Stop confronting him and making him feel like he's doing something horrible. Next time just get your damn head down there and show him that you think it's kinky or something.
2006-07-13 04:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation is very normal for men or women. Let him do it, it doesn't hurt anythhing. It may hurt your feelings that he do that in stead of having sex but Let him. It's very healthy
2006-07-13 04:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's the one with the issues. maybe he is a sex addict!!! he's doing something hunny, you ain't imagining it! if you can't take it, then leave him, he obviously won't admit it if he keeps denying it. next time you suspect it, reach over and yank it hard. then tell him, i told you so, you sick perverrt!!! who has the issues now. tell him to get help, then you'll consider getting back with him.
2006-07-13 04:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by toni h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just reach over and slap the hell outa him....kinda like you would do a dog that's not doing right....then give him some puss.y.
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2006-07-13 04:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight your bf is jerking off in bed??? wtf? are you two not gettin' it on? anyway, everytime you feel he's wacking it either participate by going down on him or unsuspectingly move your hand down and then ping him on the tip of d*ck. He'll go limp in a second.
2006-07-13 04:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it hurting? Do you have to sleep on the wet spot?
2006-07-13 04:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋