Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

sex every 3-4 weeks.
He doesn't plan dates for us.
He always feel their is tension between us, and there is obviously b/c of the way he treats me and our relationship but he doesn't see it, always says something to justify when its about his issues.
He doesn't hug me or touch my neck or SOMETHING on a normal basis, I'd say maybe three times a week.
He's doesn't call to say I love you or just thinking of you, maybe twice a month.
he'll easily complain if I didn't change the babies diaper, or give him his business mail, or something of that sort.
he's not dominant or demanding, trust me. More like a negative person who thinks he's just find and dandy!
But its ruining our relationship, talking to him has been hell. He seems to always say, "what about when I gave you a hug last night?!" etc. etc.
It's making me want to breakdown and my depression is getting worse. We have kids he watches during the day, no money for babysitting. Also, I have initiated moves on several occasions.

2006-07-13 03:11:58 · 47 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3 in Singles & Dating

boyfriend showed up to her house one time when i wasn't around. They ended up getting intimate. I found out from her lil nephew, cause he saw her do it. He told me about it. I comforted her, but she denied it. She finally came clean about it. I asked her why she lied to me, she replyed, she didn't know how we were on terms in the relationship. What made me even madder was when she said, what you don't know won't hurt u. I didn't buy what she told me. For one thing, we were together nearly 2 years, and she was always able to remember the nasty things she enjoyed that her ex's did for her. She use to always tell me what they would do for her. My question is should i had looked pass it because of the brain injury, or does it sounds like she used the injury as an excuse, to get pass the fact that she was wrong.

2006-07-13 03:10:47 · 2 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Singles & Dating

Wonder
Far away eyes...
Tear stained faces.
Aching hearts, and
Young minds, always asking,
Why?
Quiet worries,
Poems, flowers,
Shock.
And here we are, still asking...
Why?

Your beautiful souls,
Shining from heaven,
Just as they did for us each day.
Only then, they were hidden.
But now they are free; eternally happy, always...
As you dance relentlessly across our thoughts,
Our emotions,
Our spirits.
Perhaps we may come to suddenly realize,
Maybe they need you up there.
Up there, where you can flourish in your infinite, unending beauty,
And the meaning of your true worth will be fully understood.

We will always miss you.
We will always need you.
And as we learn to deal with our grief,
Not knowing how long it will take,
Perhaps, one day, we will wake up-
And the hurt is gone.
And we will finally,
Truthfully,
Honestly know,
Why.

2006-07-13 03:08:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

just because you cant be going out for a day or maybe like 10 years thats a bit weird. i think my m8 started having oral sex with her boyfriend about 1 week after they decided they were going out! and i know that it depends on the person. but i was just wondering your opinion

2006-07-13 03:07:52 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm confused about this... why you do say one thing and then do another?

2006-07-13 03:07:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think this is related to the lowering of hormones after the high of the sexual encounter?

2006-07-13 03:07:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I'm pretty good at meeting chicks. I'm single so it don't matter, I meet whatever pretty chick I come across, and get many numbers. The next step is what I suck at. I usually don't know when to call, or get nervous and sound fake. Once in a while I get something going. How do I take it to the next step, like whats the best way to ask them out, but so its like a smooth progression. Know what I'm saying? And whats a good first date idea? Maybe just bring her along somewhere I woulda gone anyway, so I don't make it seem like a big idea? Let me know....

2006-07-13 03:06:18 · 9 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Singles & Dating

hurt him/her back, or just forgive and forget?!

2006-07-13 03:04:49 · 16 answers · asked by SweetBaby 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

preferably Americans.I am f24.

2006-07-13 03:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 03:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 03:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by hotmaria84 1 in Singles & Dating

they're living in the same house but they hardly talk to each other. my mum is always complaining about what he did or didn't do, and so does he. its really annoying.

2006-07-13 03:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by taichi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 03:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i hav a bf and another guy likes me wat should i do?

2006-07-13 02:59:45 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband chews and he is trying to quit. He is having a REALLY hard time and i want to make him a cd to show him my support for him. I already have one in mind and that is the song by Rob thomas saying that i'll be there for him.

2006-07-13 02:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fella of 10 months has just dumped me. He started seeing someone new.
l always got the feeling that l was more into him then he was into me.
On Valentiens Day l got him a cd (rem) specail edition that l knew he'd love, a little cuddly toy and some sweets.
None of it really cost alot, but l knew he'd like it all and l loved the fact that he liked the gifts.
He got me Jordans book, at half price from Tesco's and a card.
He was going to buy me flowers but thought they were cheesy even though he knew l would have loved them, but he said he did think about and thats what counts. l was with him for 2 months b4 l slept with, so l dont think he saw me as cheap, but l was a bit hurt by getting a book, even though l'd said l'd like to read it, that didnt mean l wanted it on one of the romantic days of the year.
Ae men just stupid or was he just an a r s e.

2006-07-13 02:58:42 · 28 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 02:58:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-13 02:58:21 · 16 answers · asked by sexy gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 02:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by hotmaria84 1 in Singles & Dating

well i meet so many men and how am i gonna know who i want to date if i don't go out with them? I don't go to bed or kiss them or anything but i do go out with them. Then i feel like I'm trash and some of my friends make me feel like I'm a whore. Some days i say i'm a DIVA and other days i feel like a PLAY'A lol. What do you think, am i wrong and i do feel as though they want to meet me then they need to come to me?

2006-07-13 02:54:55 · 9 answers · asked by ziyyarichmond43 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke it of with my boyfriend cause he stole from me, used me for sex and other stuff too and we have an 8 month old baby . i dont want to be with him but i feel as though i cant go on without him, and i think it would hurt me if he saw somene else. i dont want to be with him ,but i cant let go .what should i do?

2006-07-13 02:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by geebabe 1 in Singles & Dating

tomorrow is my birthday and he isnt able to be here with me , he is out of state working to make money for our lil girl soon to be born in october, but the lonliness is driving me crazy, i miss him so much and with my birthday being tomorrow it makes me miss him even more...

2006-07-13 02:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by honey22252005 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 02:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by hotmabri 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 02:52:57 · 17 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

he's been asking me out, lyk forever, and i dont lyk him, am not even attracted to him, but he's almost convincing, how do i get him off my bak?

2006-07-13 02:51:42 · 12 answers · asked by taichi 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a 21 year old man that lives in another state and has a 19 year old girlfriend who just graduated from high school and has no plans to go to college or get a job. I am 30 years old, have a degree, a career that I love, and a house and car. He and I have always been inseperable when we are together because we have so much in common. He is afraid to get rid of his girlfriend (goth girl who fights w/ him constantly and claims to be bisexual) because he doesn't want to hurt her. She closely monitors his every move, so I don't get to talk to him much anymore except for short conversations here and there. However, we have several trips planned on weekends to get together, so what should I do to convince him during these trips to break up with her and stay with me? Please don't reply with reasons why I shouldn't pursue this, I already have heard them. Only reply w/ real suggestions to help me win over the man of my dreams! Thank you!

2006-07-13 02:50:38 · 18 answers · asked by Brainy Blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 02:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by vgplamondon 2 in Singles & Dating

i got loadz of friends...but want more........!!! you fancey it??

2006-07-13 02:49:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just cant stop admiring white guys but i dont think they will be interested in dating me. are there really handsome white guys who would be willing to date a black women?

2006-07-13 02:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by geebabe 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has alot of issues that he is facing now. I want to send a poem to let him know I still love him and things are going to get better. Where can I find something like that on the web?

2006-07-13 02:48:50 · 7 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating