they're living in the same house but they hardly talk to each other. my mum is always complaining about what he did or didn't do, and so does he. its really annoying.
2006-07-13 03:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by taichi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi, i have been in the same situation as you are now. And i am just going to tell you what we did to make our parents patch up their differences... we tried to talk to them, separately of course, at first they might not tell you everything or the reasons for their annoying behavior but if you make them understand that you, "the children" are getting affected by the situation, they might think twice on what they're doing and may come to realize that they are hurting you too. sometimes parents don't thnik that they can share their problems with their children, but if you can make them realize that's it's ok to let you be part of their problem, then they will feel that the burden or worry that they carry will be so much lighter and eventually, you might help them come up with a better solution to settle their differences and become a happy family again. Good luck, and have courage to tell them how you feel.
2006-07-13 03:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them put you kids in the middle. It is not your problem. When one starts to rag on the other ask them to please stop. There is nothing you can do. When a relationship starts to unravel it is up to the adults to work things out one way or the other.. Just as you did nothing to cause it - you can do nothing to stop it. Try to find a trusted adult you can talk to. It will help.
Also - them separating might be the best thing that could happen to you. Living with constant turmoil is not good for anyone.
Stay strong. Things will work out in the end.
2006-07-13 10:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to try and deal with their problems in private. Or to just spead up the seperate and one of the move out.
Unfortunately, there isn't much that you can do. It will be a long and bumpy road, but things will get better.
Hang in there.
2006-07-13 10:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider getting them the Making Marriage Work teaching series from http://www.enduringtruth.org/catalog.asp item #771776 and pray for healing in their relationship.
2006-07-13 10:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of this you come home and find a cop at the door he says your parants are dead killed in a car crash .now how much are they annoying you.
2006-07-13 10:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST REMEMBER ITS NOT YOUR FAULT THEY ARE ADULTS AND THEY SHOULD DEAL WITH THERE PROBLEMS AS ADULT AND NOT INVOLE CHILDREN I AM SORRY YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THIS BUT BE STRONG AND AGAIN REMEMBER IT IS THEIR ISSUE NOT YOURS CONCENTRATE ON SCHOOL HOLD YOU HEAD UP AND MOVE FOWARD DON'T LET THIS PUT YOU DOWN.
2006-07-13 10:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by winkicu1108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz try to make together once again as soon as possible
2006-07-13 10:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by wasi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO TALK TO THEM AND TELL THEM WHAT U R FEELING
2006-07-13 10:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋