hurt him/her back, or just forgive and forget?!
2006-07-13 03:04:49 · 16 answers · asked by SweetBaby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I usually forget, but sometimes I want a revenge!
2006-07-13 03:05:25 · update #1
I know it depends on the situation and people involved, but still....
2006-07-13 03:07:03 · update #2
i hurt them back then forgive
2006-07-13 03:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Various degrees of 'hurting' and it does depend on how thick skinned you are.
Mostly, acceptance. I've had to learn that my expectations of others is what causes me the most pain in my life. If I don't have expectations, than my pain will be lessened.
Maturity. Things that offended me in my youth I see now were from being immature and self-centered. There are so many bigger issues in life, and often my problems don't compare.
I once complained because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.
One should develop trust in themselves and in God to maintain a balance that is not painful. People can't help being people. Don't expect too much from us.
2006-07-13 10:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chew on this! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation.If they hurt me really bad then I want a revenge and I complete it.But if it is something forgivable then I forgive and forget.
2006-07-13 10:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't forgive and I don't forget. But I know deep in my heart that they will get what they deserve. I just hope that when it does happen I'll either be there to see it or hear about it. I've been right so far. Just keep your eyes and ears open. You'll see, dirt bags get whats coming to them.
2006-07-13 10:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never forget somthing that has caused you pain ti makes you stronger as a person...but I don't think you should hurt them back...then you're just like them and it will be an endless cycle...but you should think to your self...if this person has hurt you either more then once or they it was gonna hurt you when they did it then you need to think ...Am I also hurting myself? By still ingaging with them.....I think it was that bad of a hurt then you should just take yourself out of that place
2006-07-13 10:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by baby_girl3031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the type of hurt... i mean if it is done on purpose becuase they see im weak or they are just being a bully and have nothing better to do then i would want to hurt them b ack and i would never tell them it was me and for as long as i can do it, i will and i will make t worse each time
2006-07-13 10:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by uabgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it must really hurts but the bible forgive those who do u harm. u don't have to 4give dem right away but just try u don't have to foget, i was molested as a child and up until day i haven't foret but i try to forgive the person who did it.
2006-07-13 10:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the issue is patenting to and in what degree it maybe. but in most cases you should just leave it alone and move on in your life.
2006-07-13 10:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well forgive and move on
2006-07-13 10:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to forget but that ain't me I'll get them back
2006-07-13 10:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by JBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋