2006-07-13 02:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by hotmabri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when they accept your faults, and love you even at your worse, if they are trying to change something about you, it might be for the better, but if you dont see why you should change then dont. If they still accept you with no problems, then you have your answer
2006-07-13 02:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone truly loves you for who you are they won't start their sentences by saying "you should", "I wish you would", "if only you could", etc. Those types of statements tell you that you are not what they want you to be. Don't panic though; you should be allowed to be anyone you want to be. We are all constantly changing and growing as individuals; or at least we should be.
If you are happy with who you are and this person seems unhappy with you, then maybe this person is not right for you. Don't get trapped into a relationship with the wrong person because you don't want to be alone. The right person can only show themself if you are ready and available.
2006-07-13 10:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lodiju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. Its hard to find an answer. But I think it's less in the answer and more in the way you interact with this significant other. There has to be that sense of contentment and happiness there between you... you can tell, emotionally and intuitively, if it is true love. Sounds corny, I know, but I think you know what I mean, right?
2006-07-13 09:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah you have hit on the ultimate question when it comes to love. Hopefully, if you're in love, the person you are in love with brings out the best qualities in you, and wants you to be the best person you can be. If not, watch out, you're in a heap of trouble.
At the same time, they better love you for who you are NOW>
2006-07-13 09:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by schenzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are who you are, you can only act like you, not who they want you to be. So if you act true, they have no choose but to love you for you. And don't change for anyone, if they can't love you as you come, then they should go.
2006-07-13 09:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they accept all of who you are...let's say you like picking your nose, they don't tell u to stop or give up any of your personal beliefs if they truly love u.
2006-07-13 10:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they don't try to change you. They are not saying you should lose/gain weight, you should wear you hear differently, you should stop wearing you glasses and get contacts, you should pronounce your words differently, you should stop going to this place, you should start doing this, you should try this line of work... Get the idea?
If they love you for you, it's that simple. Just kick it as is baby!
2006-07-13 09:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you unconditionally. Meaning, whatever bad traits or habits you have, he embraces it full force, that's true and unconditional love.
2006-07-13 10:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by eni8_6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu'll know when they don't try to change you.
When they are able to find your little flaws attractive.
that's when you know they love you for who you are.
2006-07-13 10:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by brownie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they wont try to change who u are and the wont be controlling and comparing u wit every body else believe me you will know
2006-07-13 09:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by muffbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋