i broke it of with my boyfriend cause he stole from me, used me for sex and other stuff too and we have an 8 month old baby . i dont want to be with him but i feel as though i cant go on without him, and i think it would hurt me if he saw somene else. i dont want to be with him ,but i cant let go .what should i do?
2006-07-13 02:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by geebabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing by having strength and breaking this off. Ofcourse it will hurt if he is seeing someone else even if he is a slimeball for the way he treated you, but continue to have the same strength you found earlier and everything will work out. Also the sooner you begin to meet people and find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated the better you will feel about the whole thing and begin to realize you are making the right decision.
2006-07-13 03:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. You let him go, now be hard on him. By that I mean don't give him any sex don't let him go backand forth in and out of your life. You made a decision stick with it & be firm! Why? Because if there is any chance for you guys to get back together he will have to change some of his ways, if you remove yourself from the situation he might get more insifght might miss you enough to change! So if you really love him give him tough love!
2006-07-13 09:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take time to get used to the idea of him not being there. You can do it, you took the first step in getting rid of him. Of course you're still going to feel connected to him, you have a baby with him. He will always be your baby's father. But is it best for your child to be with the two of you together if he is disrespectful to you? It's going to take time to heal. Focus on you and the baby and you'll be ok. Good luck.
2006-07-13 10:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by lexicam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse its so oky to feel that feeling cuz u shared so may memmories and he was filling a large part of ur life and thats not eaisy to forget and also u got a child from him to remind u by him everyday,, so what u feel is normal ,, but u can over come it by knowing the main proplem and solve it
ur proplem is that u get used to him .. so the answer will be GET SOMETHING ELSE to threw urself in and keeps u busy ,, like working or going out with ur gf's
and put him totaly out of ur mind and consider his case finished and there's no option to come back
it'll be hard ,, but u can do it ,, it just 'll take sometime
2006-07-13 10:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt care about you if he did those things to you, dont remember the good times and forget the bad, realize that YOU CAN GO ON WITHOUT HIM and you are better than that
2006-07-13 09:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you love him too much thats why
2006-07-13 09:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake Up!
He's a loser. Is that what you want for yourself?
2006-07-13 09:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have a big penis
2006-07-13 09:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋