Family & Relationships - 11 July 2006

i have been praying for kids for most of my life but haven't found the correct partner.
i go by african-american but i have indian, white, mexican, puerto rican in the family and the baby is hispanic.
how can i keep him without having him taken away by the government or state?
what are the neccessary steps to keep him. could i just tell him that i am his father and his mom gave him up to me?
i think it's a gift from God.

2006-07-11 03:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by jackeyodom 1 in Family

is god fair with good looks and personality? I mean if someone is drop dead gorgeous, do they have a bad personality? or do ugly people have GREAT personalities?

2006-07-11 03:48:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I are always having sex when his mother is home and and asleep.

2006-07-11 03:47:58 · 9 answers · asked by babyjay_babyjae 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-11 03:46:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have liked this guy who happens to be a good friend for about 3 years now. He knows how I feel but when he was asked would he ever go out with me he responded "she's not what I'm looking for right now". I try to move on and when I mention other guy I have been seeing he rolls his eyes and then he tells my other friends he doens't like him. Should I keep trying to move on or what should I do?! Help! =)

2006-07-11 03:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by sprinkles3225 2 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be X is ill, and that's why she is my soon to be X, but it is extemely difficult to co-parent with her cause she doesn't do what's in the best interest of the child and only looks for her own interest. I will soon have joint custody (next month) and I'm afraid that the sh@t will hit the fan cause she absolutley hates me and I honestly don't think she can handle it. It's hard to prove her insanity in court cause she hides it well, plus we already had a psych eval and that didn't do much excetpt mention a little blurb about how she might have a personality disorder. So now what? What is my next step after 50/50?

2006-07-11 03:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The reason I'm asking; I'm in 5 year relationship, and he says he never wants to get married, just curious to know how many say yes or no, to possibly make up my mind from your answers

2006-07-11 03:45:53 · 50 answers · asked by DrPepper 6 in Singles & Dating

The Award co-ordiantor gave the award to his ex-boss son. I was so pissed, I decided to get revenge, so I slept with his ex-boss son's gf and videoed it. I plan on producin it upon leavin the USA. The sex was bad compare to jamaican girls, but that tape will sure give me my revenge.

2006-07-11 03:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by --------------- 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I are planning our wedding for next year, he is really keen on having a medieval style feast, what do you guys think? Would you enjoy going to a wedding like this or do you think it too strange? I would not expect the guests to dress up in costume or anything like that, it is too expensive! Do you have any ideas how to carry this theme through the day apart from fancy dress? I feel it is important for him to have the things he wants for the day as it is his day as well as mine and I don't think it should be all the brides responsibility to make all the plans, I am just interested in your views.

2006-07-11 03:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by sparkleythings_4you 7 in Weddings

I had an affair 2 years ago but ended it out of guilt.
I have been with my husband over 12 years.
Yes,I've tried talking till I'm blue in the face,cried to him,warned,threatned too...
divorce is not an option,I have children,and I won't take their daddy away for me being selfish.
He's a good man,just not an attentive one,I'm the comfy old recliner to him.
how do I make this feeling go away?
I don't want to feel so lonely and miss the person I had the affair with...(it lasted a year and 3mos)
it ended 2 years ago,but if I wanted I could go "today" and be with this person,but my marriage is more important,my kids.
I just feel like I'm drowning...

2006-07-11 03:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by NONE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-11 03:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by True 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I read a question about 28 year old Guy being purseud by 16 year old Gal and most are telling him to "get ready for jail" Ignorant people..most states in the USA have something called "age of consent" its 16 in my state NO LIE ..get the facts before YOU sound like THE FOOL !

2006-07-11 03:43:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If men can walk around an cheat, why cant the wife an still not get the crap if we do get caught? We women are too dang nice sometimes. "although if men were real men we wouldnt have to cheat"

2006-07-11 03:43:35 · 29 answers · asked by cafemochamamma@yahoo.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-11 03:42:51 · 53 answers · asked by m b 1 in Family

He's really cute and sweet, he's so funny and caring! Should I just get over him?

2006-07-11 03:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-11 03:42:24 · 18 answers · asked by True 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have absolutly no clue what to get him.. my mom and dad are already getting him a brand new bike that is much needed. if any of you have any ideas, contact me please.... hes party is on the 22nd of this month. he like pokemon alot.

2006-07-11 03:42:08 · 10 answers · asked by cm2635 2 in Family

i have been like really mad at my grandpa for liek at least a year now and its not so much of what he does for me,,, its more of what he doesn't do for me

my grandma died when i was i think 3 and then after a few years he met this lady. at first no 1 minded her but now all he does is spend his time with her like he would rather be with her than his own family

like i remember he used to come down to my house every wednesday just him then it became every once and a while and occasionally she would come and now he never comes up anymore

i mean i no he just got over having cancer and all but he is able to go everywhere with the gf but it seems that he never has time to spend with any1 else in my family

an other thing is that every family event we have (christmas, easter,, ect..) the gf is always there like she has to be there. i no that he probably is lonely with my grandma gone and all but sometimes i wish that he died instead of my grandma. is this so wrong??

2006-07-11 03:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by becky_693 2 in Family

How long does the infatuation stage of a relationship last? Does it make a difference if you have distance between you? I'm asking this question because I am married lesbian and met another married lesbian online. We have met in person and talk on the phone all the time but we live a couple hours away from one another. Neither of us want to be married... we have different reasons for why we are. We want to take things slow but that first part of a relationship can be so intense. When does it end and the "real" stuff begin?

2006-07-11 03:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by Codi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not familiar with all the slang...

2006-07-11 03:40:18 · 13 answers · asked by lambgroni 3 in Singles & Dating

: )

2006-07-11 03:39:14 · 9 answers · asked by ☆hello☆ 3 in Friends

There's this guy bartender at this bar my friend and I go to and he always talks to me and last week was throwing orange wedges at me to get my attention. My friend asked if he was "single for my friend" and he said he was. Then when we were leaving he grabbed my hand and was like "see you next week?" and I was like "uh, yeah" he's so hot, but I'm sure he gets hit on all the time and vice versa so I'm just wondering if I should waste my time on him

2006-07-11 03:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by MELKIT2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-11 03:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-11 03:38:45 · 20 answers · asked by beka l 1 in Friends

Or if you're not married how long have you been with your boy/girlfriend?

2006-07-11 03:37:07 · 15 answers · asked by DrPepper 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-11 03:35:59 · 44 answers · asked by Juan Valdez 2 in Singles & Dating

What would be a reason to why a guy would flirt with a girl in front of his girlfriend's siblian? Why would the guy bring his girlfriend's siblian in the same place the girl he was crushing on would be and flirt with her in front of his girlfriend's siblian?

2006-07-11 03:35:04 · 5 answers · asked by Contesta 5 in Singles & Dating

guess what i m asking...

2006-07-11 03:34:49 · 15 answers · asked by frnd_pandey 2 in Singles & Dating

i totally think they can be, but my bf insists that one of them will always want more than a friendship

2006-07-11 03:33:32 · 16 answers · asked by melissa c 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to know why thay have sites like this when everytime you ask a qustion someone trys to make you feel stupid and has a smart *** coment to say. Be nice there is no reason to be rude!!!!

2006-07-11 03:33:02 · 5 answers · asked by ashlee_86_05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships