2006-07-11 03:46:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The longer your in a relationship the more likely you are to take advantage of the person. Boredom sets in, it is up to you to keep the passion going. Have a date night, like when you were dating before marriage. Try role playing, or somewhere different, take a class together, art, cooking, anything, just something different for the two of you.
2006-07-11 03:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often look at my teen nieces and think the same thing.
As we (18 years) are with someone for a long time your life changes. We have jobs, stress, kids, house, bills etc.
You go thru different stages of passion, and you have to work to keep it new. We don't hold hands or kiss in public much but at home we touch each other as we walk by, a gentle squeeze her and there, or even tease each other all day so the evening is more passionate. You don't need to do this everyday , but just off and on.
You may have a dry spell in your love life, but get on a routine and stick with it, it will become normal again, maybe even wierd feeling, but if you don't try it won't change. You be the one to change the way you act around your spouse. Maybe that passion will be back and better.
2006-07-11 11:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a lot of work, it's a fulltime commitment made by 2. So you just have to be open & honest about everything so that you are able to satisfy your partners passions & don't hold back on what you expect. believe me noone can read minds lol. Make sure you don't clutter a person but most important love yourself and be happy, that is the most attractive thing is a happy person!
2006-07-11 10:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I am going through the same thing myself. I believe that is due to lack of spontaneity, excitement, and other circumstances. We become too relaxed with our other half that we tend to take them for granted. After a while we no longer do the things we did to attract them and, so, then we start losing interest and passion for one another. Try remembering what attracted you to each other and start from new. That always works for me.
2006-07-11 10:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by ImWaiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is incomplete. Passion often leaves a relationship when you are able to complete full sentences. Therefore yours is fine.
For instance, when my wife walks into the room, I am still often searching for the words to say, but most often I make dumb sounds like "whoa".
Thus, we still have passion.
If I were able to say, "We need milk", we would know the passion is gone.
2006-07-11 10:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get bored with the same thing like anything else.
2006-07-11 10:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called the acceptance process. found mainly in guys. it's a
time period for which one wonders if the mate they are with is truly the one and ...
2006-07-11 10:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to dwindle down....because how else U gonna get your housework done...
2006-07-11 10:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
familiarity - that's why you need an occasional affair.
2006-07-11 10:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get old and ugly.
2006-07-11 10:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋